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@YaleDivinitySchool@mstdn.social
2025-04-29 15:38:03

Statement by YDS Dean Greg Sterling.
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We are relieved that two members of the YDS community, Rev. William Barber and Rev. Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove, are safe and unharmed following their arrest while praying in the Capitol Rotunda yesterday. We applaud them for their courage in standing up for Christian values and doing so in accordance with the venerable tradition of nonviolent action.

Three men in liturgical stoles and a woman in a priest collar are in the capitol rotunda. A policeman with his back to the camera looks on.
@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-07-28 10:41:42

How popular media gets love wrong
Had some thoughts in response to a post about loneliness on here. As the author emphasized, reassurances from people who got lucky are not terribly comforting to those who didn't, especially when the person who was lucky had structural factors in their favor that made their chances of success much higher than those is their audience. So: these are just my thoughts, and may not have any bearing on your life. I share them because my experience challenged a lot of the things I was taught to believe about love, and I think my current beliefs are both truer and would benefit others seeing companionship.
We're taught in many modern societies from an absurdly young age that love is not something under our control, and that dating should be a process of trying to kindle love with different people until we meet "the one" with whom it takes off. In the slightly-less-fairytale corners of modern popular media, we might fund an admission that it's possible to influence love, feeding & tending the fire in better or worse ways. But it's still modeled as an uncontrollable force of nature, to be occasionally influenced but never tamed. I'll call this the "fire" model of love.
We're also taught (and non-boys are taught more stringently) a second contradictory model of love: that in a relationship, we need to both do things and be things in order to make our partner love us, and that if we don't, our partner's love for us will wither, and (especially if you're not a boy) it will be our fault. I'll call this the "appeal" model of love.
Now obviously both of these cannot be totally true at once, and plenty of popular media centers this contradiction, but there are really very few competing models on offer.
In my experience, however, it's possible to have "pre-meditated" love. In other words, to decide you want to love someone (or at least, try loving them), commit to that idea, and then actually wind up in love with them (and them with you, although obviously this second part is not directly under your control). I'll call this the "engineered" model of love.
Now, I don't think that the "fire" and "appeal" models of love are totally wrong, but I do feel their shortcomings often suggest poor & self-destructive relationship strategies. I do think the "fire" model is a decent model for *infatuation*, which is something a lot of popular media blur into love, and which drives many (but not all) of the feelings we normally associate with love (even as those feelings have other possible drivers too). I definitely experienced strong infatuation early on in my engineered relationship (ugh that sounds terrible but I'll stick with it; I promise no deception was involved). I continue to experience mild infatuation years later that waxes and wanes. It's not a stable foundation for a relationship but it can be a useful component of one (this at least popular media depicts often).
I'll continue these thoughts in a reply, by it might take a bit to get to it.
#relationships

@jorgecandeias@mastodon.social
2025-07-26 14:41:00

Espera lš...
Hš uma coisa nesta notícia...
Para que é que a meta, logo a meta, quer treinar a IA com filmes pornogršficos?
Vão encher o facebook das avozinhas de pornografia, é?
masto.pt/@tugatech/11491995515

@NFL@darktundra.xyz
2025-06-25 13:21:21

Robert Kraft promises Patriots turnaround following worst two-year run in owner's history with franchise

cbssports.com/nfl/news/ro…

@arXiv_astrophHE_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-07-28 09:40:21

JWST reveals a supernova following a gamma-ray burst at z $\simeq$ 7.3
A. J. Levan, B. Schneider, E. Le Floc'h, G. Brammer, N. R. Tanvir, D. B. Malesani, A. Martin-Carrillo, A. Rossi, A. Saccardi, A. Sneppen, S. D. Vergani, J. An, J. -L. Atteia, F. E. Bauer, V. Buat, S. Campana, A. Chrimes, B. Cordier, L. Cotter, F. Daigne, V. D'Elia, M. De Pasquale, A. de Ugarte Postigo, G. Corcoran, R. A. J. Eyles-Ferris, H. Fausey, A. S. Fruchter, O. Godet, B. P. Gompertz, D. Gotz, N. Habeeb…

Swalwell: You were promised lower prices on day one. How many of you are feeling those lower prices?
You were promised an end to all wars on day one. How many of you have seen an end to those wars?
Donald Trump is 0 for 150. He made those promises on day one—and now we’re on day 150.

@arXiv_csAR_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-05-29 07:15:25

Improved Prefetching Techniques for Linked Data Structures
Nikola Vuk Maruszewski
arxiv.org/abs/2505.21669 arxiv.org/…

@Mediagazer@mstdn.social
2025-06-23 20:01:16

Filing: CBS calls Trump's 60 Minutes lawsuit against the network "meritless" and an attempt to "evade bedrock First Amendment principles" (Ted Johnson/Deadline)
deadline.com/2025/06/trump-60-

@simon_brooke@mastodon.scot
2025-07-26 12:11:05

"We shouldn’t be surprised, because capturing communities with false promises only to sell us out is business as usual in the corporate internet. The founders handled the transition horribly, even by tech industry standards, and the pain and disruption it creates in our lives is real. Yet capital is constantly pulling the rug on online communities... For corporations, it’s always profits over people"

Technologies that promise to track, manage, and supervise workers,
increasingly using artificial intelligence,
are entrenched in the developing world, according to a new report by Coworker.org,
a labor rights nonprofit based in New York. 
Audits of more than 150 startups and regional companies based in Kenya, Nigeria, Colombia, Brazil, Mexico, and India showed
workplace surveillance is expanding in scale and sophistication, the researchers said.
While lar…