@raiders@darktundra.xyz2025-12-22 01:03:23
Another Tuddy for Deuce! Ashton Jeanty scores on 51-yard TD run https://www.raiders.com/video/ashton-jeanty-touchdown-run-nfl-week-16-texans
@NFL@darktundra.xyz2026-02-20 14:10:51
Matt Ryan excited by Michael Penix's ability to 'spin the football,' says Falcons QB must 'get healthy first' https://www.nfl.com/news/falcons-matt-ryan-excited-michael-penix-jr-qb-must-first-get-healthy
@filmfacts@social.tchncs.de2026-02-21 12:22:49
Was für ein komplett verblödeter Unsinn! Künstlicher Motorenlärm für #Elektroautos. Der einzige Grund dafür ist, dass die Fahrer/innen ihre Mitmenschen zwangsbeschallen und nerven wollen. Wie scheiße ist das bitte?!
@keithp@fosstodon.org2026-01-20 23:05:29
picolibc CI was taking hours (and hours) so I spent yesterday rewriting __rem_pio2f, which computes x mod π/2 for 32-bit floats. That shaved over an hour and a half from the math verification CI step.
I should rewrite the 64-, 80- and 128- bit versions someday...
https://github.com/picolibc/picolibc/p
@Techmeme@techhub.social2026-01-19 09:01:26
The memory shortage that is spiking RAM prices is now expanding to the broader PC market, driving price hikes for GPUs, high-capacity SSDs, and hard drives (Andrew Cunningham/Ars Technica)
https://arstechnica.com/gadgets/2026/0
@cark@social.tchncs.de2026-01-19 22:50:27
Es ist bestimmt ein #Nerd-Problem, aber mich stört es massiv, dass es bei staatlichen Leistungen immer diese willkürlich gesetzten Quantisierungsstufen gibt.
Dieser Beitrag [1] der @… hat mich diesbezüglich getriggert. Hier hat die Quantisierung in bestimmten Fä…
@ascendor@social.tchncs.de2025-11-22 07:33:02
Es ist eine wirklich vertrackte Situation für Selensky und die Ukraine. Trump erpresst sie: Entweder Landesteile abgeben, Armee schwächen und der NATO abschwören - oder die Unterstützung der USA verlieren.
Anders ausgedrückt: Entweder untergehen oder später untergehen.
Sollte nicht Europa aufstehen und 100% verlässlich in die Bresche springen, war es das auf kurz oder lang mit der Ukraine.
An Selenskys Stelle würde ich die Entscheidung über eine Volksabstimmung treffen. Wie k…
@kurtsh@mastodon.social2025-12-20 21:31:30
Nothing better than watching #MAGA loser Jake Paul get KO'd by #AnthonyJoshua.
AJ is my hero for taking out this Trump-loving fraud. #JakePaul the coward ran away for 5 rounds until Joshua…
@primonatura@mstdn.social2026-02-21 20:00:28
"Vienna is turning parking spaces into parks and it’s changing the city"
#Vienna #Environment
@hex@kolektiva.social2026-02-21 21:10:33
After the whole Adam Something "dating advice for leftist men" thing, I realized I should probably write something about that. I didn't, but I realized I should. Here I am sort of getting around to it.
I had a friend call me an "elder" at one point. I was like 35 at that time, but like... a lot of old leftists are just dead or in prison, so we take what we can get I guess. Being also an elder in the sense that I'm an elder millennial, who is also a parent and married for almost 10 years and all that, I guess I'm technically qualified.
So here it is, dating advice for (straight cis) leftist men:
1. Don't.
That's it, actually. That's the whole thing. Let me explain a bit.
First of all, this is dating advice for neuroatypical folks. We're way overrepresented in both extremes because this system wasn't built for us. And that's who is *the most* confused by all the relationship stuff, and most likely to try to apply all this masculinity/manosphere bullshit. I'm also talking a bit from experience here, as a neruo-spicy trying to "figure out" how to date within a paradigm entirely built around neurotypicals and their relationships. It's garbage. Throw it out. There's nothing worth saving.
His video had some line comparing not having sex to your house being on fire. I'm not gonna bother to quote it because I'm busy with actual life. But like, that's exactly what I'm talking about. I recognize that and it's horribly destructive. Men who buy in to patriarchy actually believe this, because those men value themselves based on (hetro) sex. Yeah, if you think you're worthless because you aren't "getting laid" then yeah, you're gonna feel like that's an emergency.
"Dating" as a paradigm turns humans into roles. It dehumanizes us all, and thus makes human connection much harder. It is a game that, like thermonuclear war, can only be won by not playing.
When you abandon "dating" and just act like a human, everything starts to be easier. There's no such thing as being "friend zoned" because you're just friends. Sometimes friendships become other things, sometimes they don't. It doesn't actually matter, because if you're actually there for friendship then you don't *need* anything else.
My grandma, at 98 I think, gave me some advice. My grandparents always got along well, and were married for enough decades that I listened really closely. She told me I should just do things I loved to do and everything else would work itself out.
And it kind of did.
I understand the fear, the idea that you'll die alone. I get that. I get the loneliness. It all hits a lot harder when you have ADHD emotions and past trauma. I get that. But that fear is self-manifesting. When you build your confidence, when you don't *need* to be "in a relationship," you have more room to actually build relationships. For me, dating was dehumanizing. When I abandoned that, I was able to actually be a good partner, and I was able to find my partner.
I would advise against marriage as well, but we did get married for legal reasons. It can still be hard to maintain that, to see each other as people rather than roles. That becomes extra hard as parents. But the times that we cut through that are the times we're closest. Those are the times when it becomes easier to remember that we're both humans and all human relationships need tending.
Roles don't need to be tended because they are classifications. Classifications are static. But relationships between humans are not. Humans are messy and chaotic. Humans have all kinds of complex needs and desires.
So yeah, don't date. Just be a human and see what happens. Maybe google "relationship anarchy" and see where it takes you.
If you have ADHD, it can be especially useful to understand that relationships with neurotypical folks can be especially difficult. Assume you're incompatible with 90% of the population as your baseline, and you'll start to understand why the standard "dating" thing has made you feel so alienated and miserable.
Neurotypical folks generally have no idea that atypicality exists, much less how it impacts relationships. Having to conform to a neurotypical relationship just adds additional mental strain unless you find someone (really special) who can do at least some of the work.
The ADHD thing was especially important for me. There were so many things I was told to do in specific ways by neurotypicals that never worked for me. Their advice always made me feel like a failure. When I was finally diagnosed, I realized they were just giving advice for the wrong type of brain. It was advice I could never use. Basically all dating advice I ever got fell into this same category.
That's my braindump. Maybe I'll develop it more in the future, but I'm busy so maybe not. I hope it helps someone who is struggling like I was.