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@raysofred@discordian.social
2025-06-26 14:26:17

I was going to unblock an ex friend again as a sign of good faith but she’s literally lying about me again on main
I dis not use the phrase “in bad fairh” out of knowhere, SHE accused ME and I responded #abuse #lying

What's the hardest you've had someone tell on themselves? | have severe anxiety and always assume I'm the bad guy. | was actually relieved when an abuser suddenly replied "l am not arguing in bad faith, fuck you" I had not yet realized they were arguing in bad faith until that moment nor had | said anything hostile. Instantly helped me realize—- oh. They're an *asshole*, cool bye.
@unchartedworlds@scicomm.xyz
2025-07-20 10:46:38
Content warning: Sara Ahmed, "When collectivity is confused with compliance"

Another tip top essay with illuminating stories.
"Complaints can be treated as causing disruption not only to the person who acted abusively but to everyone who accepted the abuse as a condition of access."
#complaint #abuse #education

@bobmueller@mastodon.world
2025-06-30 20:00:32

I've got a new piece up at The Good Men Project: Where’s the Line Between Strongly-Held Religious Beliefs and Child Abuse? #religion #abuse