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'Call the Ayatollah'— Senator Graham backs Trump's 50-day Russia ultimatum, alludes to response against Iran: https://benborges.xyz/2025/07/16/call-the-ayatollah-senator-graham.html
'Call the Ayatollah'— Senator Graham backs Trump's 50-day Russia ultimatum, alludes to response against Iran: https://benborges.xyz/2025/07/16/call-the-ayatollah-senator-graham.html
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I got this useful info, especially the phone numbers, my my California state assembly person:
We've already seen peaceful demonstrators, legal observers, and even witnesses detained. These are serious and unpredictable situations, and I urge you: stay calm, stay safe, and do not engage directly with ICE agents. Always be peaceful and nonviolent.
Instead, call your local rapid response hotline:
Santa Cruz County: (831) 239-4289
Santa Clara County: (408) 290-…
How popular media gets love wrong
Had some thoughts in response to a post about loneliness on here. As the author emphasized, reassurances from people who got lucky are not terribly comforting to those who didn't, especially when the person who was lucky had structural factors in their favor that made their chances of success much higher than those is their audience. So: these are just my thoughts, and may not have any bearing on your life. I share them because my experience challenged a lot of the things I was taught to believe about love, and I think my current beliefs are both truer and would benefit others seeing companionship.
We're taught in many modern societies from an absurdly young age that love is not something under our control, and that dating should be a process of trying to kindle love with different people until we meet "the one" with whom it takes off. In the slightly-less-fairytale corners of modern popular media, we might fund an admission that it's possible to influence love, feeding & tending the fire in better or worse ways. But it's still modeled as an uncontrollable force of nature, to be occasionally influenced but never tamed. I'll call this the "fire" model of love.
We're also taught (and non-boys are taught more stringently) a second contradictory model of love: that in a relationship, we need to both do things and be things in order to make our partner love us, and that if we don't, our partner's love for us will wither, and (especially if you're not a boy) it will be our fault. I'll call this the "appeal" model of love.
Now obviously both of these cannot be totally true at once, and plenty of popular media centers this contradiction, but there are really very few competing models on offer.
In my experience, however, it's possible to have "pre-meditated" love. In other words, to decide you want to love someone (or at least, try loving them), commit to that idea, and then actually wind up in love with them (and them with you, although obviously this second part is not directly under your control). I'll call this the "engineered" model of love.
Now, I don't think that the "fire" and "appeal" models of love are totally wrong, but I do feel their shortcomings often suggest poor & self-destructive relationship strategies. I do think the "fire" model is a decent model for *infatuation*, which is something a lot of popular media blur into love, and which drives many (but not all) of the feelings we normally associate with love (even as those feelings have other possible drivers too). I definitely experienced strong infatuation early on in my engineered relationship (ugh that sounds terrible but I'll stick with it; I promise no deception was involved). I continue to experience mild infatuation years later that waxes and wanes. It's not a stable foundation for a relationship but it can be a useful component of one (this at least popular media depicts often).
I'll continue these thoughts in a reply, by it might take a bit to get to it.
#relationships
Message your congresscritters, NOW. Tell them to order Trump to call off the military.
(He won't listen, but that sets up a direct confrontation sooner rather than later. Which is good for us.)
https://action.aclu.org/send-message/tell-congress…
Inference of germinal center evolutionary dynamics via simulation-based deep learning
Duncan K Ralph, Athanasios G Bakis, Jared Galloway, Ashni A Vora, Tatsuya Araki, Gabriel D Victora, Yun S Song, William S DeWitt, Frederick A Matsen IV
https://arxiv.org/abs/2508.09871
Toward Low-Latency End-to-End Voice Agents for Telecommunications Using Streaming ASR, Quantized LLMs, and Real-Time TTS
Vignesh Ethiraj, Ashwath David, Sidhanth Menon, Divya Vijay
https://arxiv.org/abs/2508.04721
Democrats and opposition groups call the bill the Trump Tax Scam,
and with solid majorities turning against it in poll after poll, they are preparing to hammer Republicans for supporting cuts that will harm their constituents ahead of the 2026 midterms.
Republicans are repeating falsehoods about the bill’s impacts,
especially on health care, and lashing out in response — or calling it quits altogether.
Effective quality factor of mechanical resonators under complex-frequency excitations
Wenbo Li, Skriptyan Syuhri, Pablo Tarazaga, Raj Kumar Pal
https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.10940
This https://arxiv.org/abs/2201.10300 has been replaced.
link: https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=a