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@mgorny@social.treehouse.systems
2025-07-22 10:21:15

Time for another "review". This one's hard. While the book was quite interesting, it required me to be quite open-minded. Still, I think it's worth mentioning:
Robert Wright — Nonzero: The Logic of Human Destiny
The book basically focused on a thesis that both biological evolution and cultural evolution are a thing, they are directional and this directionality can be explained together using game theory — as eventually leading to more non-zero sum games.
It consists of three chapters. The first one is is focused on the history of civilization. It features many examples from different parts of the world, which makes it quite interesting. The author argues that the culture inevitably is evolving as information processing techniques improve — from writing to the Internet.
The second chapter is focused on biological evolution. Now, the argument is that it's not quite random, but actually directed towards greater complexity — eventually leading to the development of highly intelligent species, and a civilization.
The third chapter is quite speculative and metaphysical, and I'm just going to skip it.
The book is full of optimism. Capitalism creates freedom — because people are more productive when they're working for their own gain, so the free market eliminates slavery. Globalisation creates networks of interdependence that make wars uneconomic. Increased contacts between different cultures makes people more tolerant. And eventually, the humanity may be able to unite facing a common "external" enemy — the climate change.
What can I say? The examples are quite interesting, the whole theory seems self-consistent. Still, I repeatedly looked at the publication date (it's 1999), and wondered if author would write the same thing today (yes, I know I can search for his current opinions).
#books #bookstodon @…

@ubuntourist@mastodon.social
2025-08-20 20:24:26

August 22, 2025 4:30-6:00 - Columbia Heights Plaza, Washington, DC: Prayer Vigil (to end the occupation)
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#resist #WashingtonDC #DC

Columbia Heights Plaza - August 22, 2025, Gathering at 4:30 PM, Service from 5:00 PM until 6:00 PM

PRAYER VIGIL

Clergy of DC: Stand with us!

The overreach of the federal government has brought violence into our streets. Let us reclaim these spaces as sacred. Together, we will make it clear to the powers that be: We are not afraid. We will defend DC!

* Jews United for Justice - "Think Jewishly. Act Locally."

* Unitarian Universalists for Social Justice (UUSJ) - UU advocacy in the nation's c…
@mlawton@mstdn.social
2025-07-19 13:57:21

Every summer, Yachtley Crue, comes to town and plays in a small venue along the river. We go with some friends who, a few years ago, knowing my love for “yacht rock”, turned us into them. Last night was, I think, our 4th time seeing them together. Super fun, and of course, super cheesy! 🛥️ 🎸 🎷

An outdoor concert pavilion. On stage, musicians wearing white sailor uniforms are playing Robbie Dupree’s “Steal Away”

'Very true,' said the Duchess: 'flamingoes and mustard both bite. And the moral of that is — "Birds of a feather flock together."'
...
Only mustard isn't a bird,' Alice remarked.
...
'It's a mineral, I think,' said Alice.
'...said the Duchess...there's a large mustard-mine near here. And the moral of that is — "The more there is of mine, the less there is of yours."'
--Lewis Carroll

@steve@s.yelvington.com
2025-08-16 14:22:35

Brilliant. This was shared on facebook. It sort of ties at all together don't you think?

A red sickle is crossed, not with a hammer, but with a trumpish tie.
@peterhoneyman@a2mi.social
2025-07-17 18:07:52

i was put in charge of three grandchildren for a few hours yesterday so we headed straight to ben & jerry's to split a milkshake, then explored the state theater (and even sneaked into a movie but later got thrown out for horsing around on the escalator), then i gave a nickel tour of angell/mason/haven halls, then they chased squirrels on the diag which took longer than you might think, then we looked in all the windows in nickels arcade. it all went slowly and well.

A four-, five-, and a six-year old are seated in a booth with a bright orange tabletop in front of a purple each with a small cup containing vanilla milkshake. They're eating with straws and spoons. So far, it is not a messy disaster.

This is a cheerful photo of three children enjoying milkshakes at a restaurant booth. The setting is a classic ice cream parlor with its distinctive blue and yellow booth seating and black-and-white checkered floor.

The children are seated around a bright orange…
This photo shows three children sitting together on a wooden bench in a public building. The setting has large windows in the background showing green grass and trees outside, with some chairs and bicycles visible through the glass.

On the left is a girl with shoulder-length blonde wavy hair wearing a light pink/lavender t-shirt with a sparkly design paired with light blue shorts and pink Crocs-style shoes. In the middle is a girl with her hair in small buns or pigtails, wearing a light blue d…
This photo shows the Michigan diag, a public green space with a concrete sidewalk running along the right side. The area features a well-maintained grassy lawn with several young trees planted throughout, each surrounded by dark mulch circles. The trees appear to be newly planted or relatively young.

In the background, there are mature, established trees providing a canopy of green foliage. White banners or flags can be seen hanging from poles, though the text on them isn't clearly visible. Th…
@threeofus@mstdn.social
2025-07-17 08:51:47

Seriously starting to think that I’d be better off without C. I’d have to find a big chunk of money to pay off the money she’s put into our house. Separating isn’t really feasible though as we have little baby A together. C isn’t well enough to care for A by herself, and I need to work so can’t look after her all by myself. I fucked up pretty badly getting C pregnant just three months into our relationship. I’m a fucking idiot.

@samir@functional.computer
2025-08-15 20:34:21

I have been working on a build tool. Again.
This one… I think it’s got legs.
Here it is, concatenating a bunch of text files together:
codeberg.org/ooble/um/src/bran
And here, compiling a simple C program, w…

@NFL@darktundra.xyz
2025-07-24 14:00:20

Steelers GM Omar Khan on offseason overhaul: 'We think it came together pretty nicely' nfl.com/news/steelers-gm-omar-

@david@boles.xyz
2025-09-11 14:25:59

Why Cooperation Beats Competition If You Design It Right
We praise competition because it slings us awake, but the quiet truth is that cooperation does the heavy lifting. It stitches days together, forges talent into reliability, and turns cleverness into outcomes you can touch. You see it most clearly where failure costs blood or bread. Think of the night shift in a busy hospital: rounds, handoffs, an attending who catches what a resident almost missed because the…

@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-07-28 13:04:34

How popular media gets love wrong
Okay, so what exactly are the details of the "engineered" model of love from my previous post? I'll try to summarize my thoughts and the experiences they're built on.
1. "Love" can be be thought of like a mechanism that's built by two (or more) people. In this case, no single person can build the thing alone, to work it needs contributions from multiple people (I suppose self-love might be an exception to that). In any case, the builders can intentionally choose how they build (and maintain) the mechanism, they can build it differently to suit their particular needs/wants, and they will need to maintain and repair it over time to keep it running. It may need winding, or fuel, or charging plus oil changes and bolt-tightening, etc.
2. Any two (or more) people can choose to start building love between them at any time. No need to "find your soulmate" or "wait for the right person." Now the caveat is that the mechanism is difficult to build and requires lots of cooperation, so there might indeed be "wrong people" to try to build love with. People in general might experience more failures than successes. The key component is slowly-escalating shared commitment to the project, which is negotiated between the partners so that neither one feels like they've been left to do all the work themselves. Since it's a big scary project though, it's very easy to decide it's too hard and give up, and so the builders need to encourage each other and pace themselves. The project can only succeed if there's mutual commitment, and that will certainly require compromise (sometimes even sacrifice, though not always). If the mechanism works well, the benefits (companionship; encouragement; praise; loving sex; hugs; etc.) will be well worth the compromises you make to build it, but this isn't always the case.
3. The mechanism is prone to falling apart if not maintained. In my view, the "fire" and "appeal" models of love don't adequately convey the need for this maintenance and lead to a lot of under-maintained relationships many of which fall apart. You'll need to do things together that make you happy, do things that make your partner happy (in some cases even if they annoy you, but never in a transactional or box-checking way), spend time with shared attention, spend time alone and/or apart, reassure each other through words (or deeds) of mutual beliefs (especially your continued commitment to the relationship), do things that comfort and/or excite each other physically (anywhere from hugs to hand-holding to sex) and probably other things I'm not thinking of. Not *every* relationship needs *all* of these maintenance techniques, but I think most will need most. Note especially that patriarchy teaches men that they don't need to bother with any of this, which harms primarily their romantic partners but secondarily them as their relationships fail due to their own (cultivated-by-patriarchy) incompetence. If a relationship evolves to a point where one person is doing all the maintenance (& improvement) work, it's been bent into a shape that no longer really qualifies as "love" in my book, and that's super unhealthy.
4. The key things to negotiate when trying to build a new love are first, how to work together in the first place, and how to be comfortable around each others' habits (or how to change those habits). Second, what level of commitment you have right now, and what how/when you want to increase that commitment. Additionally, I think it's worth checking in about what you're each putting into and getting out of the relationship, to ensure that it continues to be positive for all participants. To build a successful relationship, you need to be able to incrementally increase the level of commitment to one that you're both comfortable staying at long-term, while ensuring that for both partners, the relationship is both a net benefit and has manageable costs (those two things are not the same). Obviously it's not easy to actually have conversations about these things (congratulations if you can just talk about this stuff) because there's a huge fear of hearing an answer that you don't want to hear. I think the range of discouraging answers which actually spell doom for a relationship is smaller than people think and there's usually a reasonable "shoulder" you can fall into where things aren't on a good trajectory but could be brought back into one, but even so these conversations are scary. Still, I think only having honest conversations about these things when you're angry at each other is not a good plan. You can also try to communicate some of these things via non-conversational means, if that feels safer, and at least being aware that these are the objectives you're pursuing is probably helpful.
I'll post two more replies here about my own experiences that led me to this mental model and trying to distill this into advice, although it will take me a moment to get to those.
#relationships #love

@rasterweb@mastodon.social
2025-09-01 02:29:58

Well, I bought a bike. I also realized I don’t think I ever bought a bike for myself before! Most of my bikes were gifts, or built from random parts I’d bought, or pieced together from the dumpster. So this is sort of exciting! And after today’s ride I think an ebike is perfect for me. It’s not easy to ride with people 15 years younger than be, and with occasional knee & hip pain, pedal assist will save my ass.

An Aventon Level 3 ebike.
@al3x@hachyderm.io
2025-09-11 20:13:35

Step 1) Someone (read manager) uses AI to put together a 30 lines python script.
Step 2) He declares in the next meeting that developers must become much more productive right away.
Step 3) … please tell me what you think will happen?

@hikingdude@mastodon.social
2025-07-09 20:02:20

Just sharing this reminder of a really glorious day in the #mountains .
I spent quite a bit of time to find exactly THIS spot so that fore and midground blended so well together.
And currently I'm having this as a background image in teams. Sometimes I wonder if this might look unprofessional - and then I think "maybe I don't care".

A stunning landscape featuring a serene lake surrounded by majestic mountains and vibrant yellow flowers. The scene is set under a clear blue sky with fluffy white clouds adding to the picturesque view. The foreground is dominated by black trees and plants, creating a contrast with the bright yellow flowers. The image captures the essence of a peaceful wilderness, with lush green grass leading up to the tranquil lake. The overall color palette is accentuated by a warm golden hue, giving a feeli…
@samir@functional.computer
2025-08-11 15:39:30

@… Yeah, I’m sure it’s coming up everywhere. I definitely think the industry has become much worse at interviewing, too.
I think we might start going to unconferences together to discuss this topic at some point.

@samvarma@fosstodon.org
2025-08-05 15:53:27

One thing people don't realize about pro guitar playing is that a lot of times it's two simple things put together that give a result that sounds way harder than it really is.
For dust in the wind, once you get the motor of the finger picking down, the chord changes are actually really easy, and when you put it together cleanly it sounds beautiful. The trick is trusting your right hand completely with the finger picking pattern so you don't think about it anymore.

@v_i_o_l_a@openbiblio.social
2025-06-26 06:23:07

"It's "#ORCID and…," not "ORCID or…": How researcher identifiers work together to help researchers, build a better picture of research, and streamline administrative tasks": White Paper by MoreBrains ›

@grumpybozo@toad.social
2025-07-03 17:28:33

The key is not allow boys to be raised by older boys, even ones who are legally adults. By the time they’re thinking about dating, they are likely to be ruined.
The problem is too much gendering in childhood. So many people are raised to think in binary gender terms compelled to conform to gender norms and believe in binary-gender ideology.
I will never run out of gratitude for being the only boy in my family for much of my childhood.

@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-08-04 15:49:01

Series B, Episode 08 - Hostage
JENNA: But you've been against it all until now.
AVON: I know, but I'm still going down. Vila?
JENNA: [To Cally] You know what all this is about, don't you?
CALLY: [Nodding] I think I can guess.
blake.torpidity.net/m/208/319

Claude 3.7 describes the image as: "The image shows two people sitting together in what appears to be a sci-fi television setting from the late 1970s or early 1980s. On the left is a person with blonde, feathered hair wearing a patterned black and white top with a pearl necklace. On the right is someone with curly brown hair dressed in a light-colored, possibly cream or beige outfit.

The scene appears to be set inside a spacecraft or futuristic setting, with neutral-toned seating visible behin…
@fell@ma.fellr.net
2025-06-25 07:58:58

My /home directory was stored on a RAID 0 composed of two cheapish SSDs, and one of them already has "slow sectors".
I migrated it to the next best thing I had lying around: An array of 4 mechanical HDDs in RAID 10. (far2 layout)
You would think that HDDs would be painfully slow, but it's not that bad, actually.
It's very slightly slower, but it appears that 4 HDDs working together can almost beat a cheap chinese SSD.

‪@Nael@pachyder.me‬
2025-08-26 22:26:31
Content warning:  

Sometimes (like after reading to many news and hearing to many people talk), i think we shouldn’t try to save Humanity.
We are way to cruel and mean to each other, and we seems unable to learn from the past.
We (as a whole) seems to be incapable of leaving together on a single planet. So maybe let the virus die by his own hand and let the planet move to the next, probably better, thing.

@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-06-24 09:39:49

Subtooting since people in the original thread wanted it to be over, but selfishly tagging @… and @… whose opinions I value...
I think that saying "we are not a supply chain" is exactly what open-source maintainers should be doing right now in response to "open source supply chain security" threads.
I can't claim to be an expert and don't maintain any important FOSS stuff, but I do release almost all of my code under open licenses, and I do use many open source libraries, and I have felt the pain of needing to replace an unmaintained library.
There's a certain small-to-mid-scale class of program, including many open-source libraries, which can be built/maintained by a single person, and which to my mind best operate on a "snake growth" model: incremental changes/fixes, punctuated by periodic "skin-shedding" phases where make rewrites or version updates happen. These projects aren't immortal either: as the whole tech landscape around them changes, they become unnecessary and/or people lose interest, so they go unmaintained and eventually break. Each time one of their dependencies breaks (or has a skin-shedding moment) there's a higher probability that they break or shed too, as maintenance needs shoot up at these junctures. Unless you're a company trying to make money from a single long-lived app, it's actually okay that software churns like this, and if you're a company trying to make money, your priorities absolutely should not factor into any decisions people making FOSS software make: we're trying (and to a huge extent succeeding) to make a better world (and/or just have fun with our own hobbies share that fun with others) that leaves behind the corrosive & planet-destroying plague which is capitalism, and you're trying to personally enrich yourself by embracing that plague. The fact that capitalism is *evil* is not an incidental thing in this discussion.
To make an imperfect analogy, imagine that the peasants of some domain have set up a really-free-market, where they provide each other with free stuff to help each other survive, sometimes doing some barter perhaps but mostly just everyone bringing their surplus. Now imagine the lord of the domain, who is the source of these peasants' immiseration, goes to this market secretly & takes some berries, which he uses as one ingredient in delicious tarts that he then sells for profit. But then the berry-bringer stops showing up to the free market, or starts bringing a different kind of fruit, or even ends up bringing rotten berries by accident. And the lord complains "I have a supply chain problem!" Like, fuck off dude! Your problem is that you *didn't* want to build a supply chain and instead thought you would build your profit-focused business in other people's free stuff. If you were paying the berry-picker, you'd have a supply chain problem, but you weren't, so you really have an "I want more free stuff" problem when you can't be arsed to give away your own stuff for free.
There can be all sorts of problems in the really-free-market, like maybe not enough people bring socks, so the peasants who can't afford socks are going barefoot, and having foot problems, and the peasants put their heads together and see if they can convince someone to start bringing socks, and maybe they can't and things are a bit sad, but the really-free-market was never supposed to solve everyone's problems 100% when they're all still being squeezed dry by their taxes: until they are able to get free of the lord & start building a lovely anarchist society, the really-free-market is a best-effort kind of deal that aims to make things better, and sometimes will fall short. When it becomes the main way goods in society are distributed, and when the people who contribute aren't constantly drained by the feudal yoke, at that point the availability of particular goods is a real problem that needs to be solved, but at that point, it's also much easier to solve. And at *no* point does someone coming into the market to take stuff only to turn around and sell it deserve anything from the market or those contributing to it. They are not a supply chain. They're trying to help each other out, but even then they're doing so freely and without obligation. They might discuss amongst themselves how to better coordinate their mutual aid, but they're not going to end up forcing anyone to bring anything or even expecting that a certain person contribute a certain amount, since the whole point is that the thing is voluntary & free, and they've all got changing life circumstances that affect their contributions. Celebrate whatever shows up at the market, express your desire for things that would be useful, but don't impose a burden on anyone else to bring a specific thing, because otherwise it's fair for them to oppose such a burden on you, and now you two are doing your own barter thing that's outside the parameters of the really-free-market.