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@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-07-28 13:06:20

How popular media gets love wrong
Now a bit of background about why I have this "engineered" model of love:
First, I'm a white straight cis man. I've got a few traits that might work against my relationship chances (e.g., neurodivergence; I generally fit pretty well into the "weird geek" stereotype), but as I was recently reminded, it's possible my experience derives more from luck than other factors, and since things are tilted more in my favor than most people on the planet, my advice could be worse than useless if it leads people towards strategies that would only have worked for someone like me. I don't *think* that's the case, but it's worth mentioning explicitly.
When I first started dating my now-wife, we were both in graduate school. I was 26, and had exactly zero dating/romantic experience though that point in my life. In other words, a pretty stereotypical "incel" although I definitely didn't subscribe to incel ideology at all. I felt lonely, and vaguely wanted a romantic relationship (I'm neither aromantic nor asexual), but had never felt socially comfortable enough to pursue one before. I don't drink and dislike most social gatherings like parties or bars; I mostly hung around the fringes of the few college parties I attended, and although I had a reasonable college social life in terms of friends, I didn't really do anything to pursue romance, feeling too awkward to know where to start. I had the beginnings of crushes in both high school and college, but never developed a really strong crush, probably correlated with not putting myself in many social situations outside of close all-male friend gatherings. I never felt remotely comfortable enough to act on any of the proto-crushes I did have. I did watch porn and masturbate, so one motivation for pursuing a relationship was physical intimacy, but loneliness was as much of a motivating factor, and of course the social pressure to date was a factor too, even though I'm quite contrarian.
When I first started dating my now-wife, we were both in graduate school. I was 26, and had exactly zero dating/romantic experience though that point in my life. In other words, a pretty stereotypical "incel" although I definitely didn't subscribe to incel ideology at all. I felt lonely, and vaguely wanted a romantic relationship (I'm neither aromantic nor asexual), but had never felt socially comfortable enough to pursue one before. I don't drink and dislike most social gatherings like parties or bars; I mostly hung around the fringes of the few college parties I attended, and although I had a reasonable college social life in terms of friends, I didn't really do anything to pursue romance, feeling too awkward to know where to start. I had the beginnings of crushes in both high school and college, but never developed a really strong crush, probably correlated with not putting myself in many social situations outside of close all-male friend gatherings. I never felt remotely comfortable enough to act on any of the proto-crushes I did have. I did watch porn and masturbate, so one motivation for pursuing a relationship was physical intimacy, but loneliness was as much of a motivating factor, and of course the social pressure to date was a factor too, even though I'm quite contrarian.
I'm lucky in that I had some mixed-gender social circles already like intramural soccer and a graduate-student housing potluck. Graduate school makes a *lot* more of these social spaces accessible, so I recognize that those not in school of some sort have a harder time of things, especially if like me they don't feel like they fit in in typical adult social spaces like bars.
However, at one point I just decided that my desire for a relationship would need action on my part and so I'd try to build a relationship and see what happened. I worked up my courage and asked one of the people in my potluck if she'd like to go for a hike (pretty much clearly a date but not explicitly one; in retrospect not the best first-date modality in a lot of ways, but it made a little more sense in our setting where we could go for a hike from our front door). To emphasize this point: I was not in love with (or even infatuated with) my now-wife at that point. I made a decision to be open to building a relationship, but didn't follow the typical romance story formula beyond that. Now of course, in real life as opposed to popular media, this isn't anything special. People ask each other out all the time just because they're lonely, and some of those relationships turn out fine (although many do not).
I was lucky in that some aspects of who I am and what I do happened to be naturally comforting to my wife (natural advantage in the "appeal" model of love) but of course there are some aspects of me that annoy my wife, and we negotiate that. In the other direction, there's some things I instantly liked about my wife, and other things that still annoy me. We've figured out how to accept a little, change a little, and overall be happy with each other (though we do still have arguments; it's not like the operation/construction/maintenance of the "love mechanism" is always perfectly smooth). In particular though, I approached the relationship with the attitude of "I want to try to build a relationship with this person," at first just because of my own desires for *any* relationship, and then gradually more and more through my desire to build *this specific* relationship as I enjoyed the rewards of companionship.
So for example, while I think my wife is objectively beautiful, she's also *subjectively* very beautiful *to me* because having decided to build a relationship with her, I actively tried to see her as beautiful, rather than trying to judge whether I wanted a relationship with her based on her beauty. In other words, our relationship is more causative of her beauty-to-me than her beauty-to-me is causative of our relationship. This is the biggest way I think the "engineered" model of love differs from the "fire" and "appeal" models: you can just decide to build love independent of factors we typically think of as engendering love (NOT independent of your partner's willingness to participate, of course), and then all of those things like "thinking your partner is beautiful" can be a result of the relationship you're building. For sure those factors might affect who is willing to try building a relationship with you in the first place, but if more people were willing to jump into relationship building (not necessarily with full commitment from the start) without worrying about those other factors, they might find that those factors can come out of the relationship instead of being prerequisites for it. I think this is the biggest failure of the "appeal" model in particular: yes you *do* need to do things that appeal to your partner, but it's not just "make myself lovable" it's also: is your partner putting in the effort to see the ways that you are beautiful/lovable/etc., or are they just expecting you to become exactly some perfect person they've imagined (and/or been told to desire by society)? The former is perfectly possible, and no less satisfying than the latter.
To cut off my rambling a bit here, I'll just add that in our progress from dating through marriage through staying-married, my wife and I have both talked at times explicitly about commitment, and especially when deciding to get married, I told her that I knew I couldn't live up to the perfect model of a husband that I'd want to be, but that if she wanted to deepen our commitment, I was happy to do that, and so we did. I also rearranged my priorities at that point, deciding that I knew I wanted to prioritize this relationship above things like my career or my research interests, and while I've not always been perfect at that in my little decisions, I've been good at holding to that in my big decisions at least. In the end, *once we had built a somewhat-committed relationship*, we had something that we both recognized was worth more than most other things in life, and that let us commit even more, thus getting even more out of it in the long term. Obviously you can't start the first date with an expectation of life-long commitment, and you need to synchronize your increasing commitment to a relationship so that it doesn't become lopsided, which is hard. But if you take the commitment as an active decision and as the *precursor* to things like infatuation, attraction, etc., you can build up to something that's incredibly strong and rewarding.
I'll follow this up with one more post trying to distill some advice from my ramblings.
#relationships #love

@saraislet@infosec.exchange
2025-08-28 00:38:57

A triptych on Starhawk, who developed some of the most poignantly insightful ideas in structural theories of power, among the many philosophers, sociologists, and psychologists who wrote about theories of power in the 20th century
Note that the second and third image come from the *same book*, in the first and second chapters
I…did not expect woo poetry on magic and sexuality in a book that's highly cited by writers on theories of power

A table of Aspects of power
Power-over, by theories of "State and class", and also French and Starhawk:
Domination
Coercion
Authority

Power-with, by Arendt and Starhawk:
Positive power of collectivity

Power-from-within, by Starhawk:
Inner strength from sense of own ability and innate value

Power-to, by French:
Combination of above two: strength of individual supported by communities
Although power-over rules the systems we live in, power-from-within sustains our lives. We can feel that power in acts of creation and connec-tion, in planting, building, writing, cleaning, healing, soothing, playing, singing, making love. We can feel it in acting together with others to oppose control.

A third aspect of power was also present in the jail at Camp Parks. We could call it power-with, or influence: the power of a strong individual in a group of equals, the power not to command, b…
Women sing the praises of a woman's body. Although the context of the Sacred Marriage seems a heterosexual one, the texts again and again show us women's erotic celebration of each other. Inanna's girlfriends praise her sexual parts as if they have intimate knowledge of them. In a society in which the erotic was seen as sacred, sexual identity may have been much more fluid than it is today. The texts that have been preserved sing of heterosexual sex; we don't know what chants were sung that wer…
@detondev@social.linux.pizza
2025-07-27 03:07:00

even more famous!
english.elpais.com/people/2024

Fragrance reviews have been pushed into the background. Just one example is the 2021 video My Life Story, where he claims that his father used to beat him and his older brother, that he had sex with other men while he was part of Part Six and that a woman falsely accused him of rape. In the final minutes, before recommending Gentleman by Givenchy, he gets excited by thinking about the millions of women who get breast implants. Many of his subscribers assume that such manic videos are the result…
In his native country, Jeremy has become a celebrity: in November 2022, he made the leap to the small screen when he took part in the 10th edition of Promi Big Brother, Germany's version of Celebrity Big Brother. As was to be expected, he did his thing: he did not eat anything, subsisting only on water, and at no time did he take off his characteristic white suit, no matter how much the producers asked him to. On the sixth day, he left the show. He had accomplished his mission: as he said on se…
@playinprogress@assemblag.es
2025-08-28 06:21:46

dappled light splitting seconds while illuminating feet
#photography #feet #red

horizontal format photo of a foot resting on a brick-red fabric, hit by direct sunlight coming from a window outside the top of the frame of the image, resulting in the foot casting a dark shadow on the red fabric, being surrounded by dark shadows, while also receiving some strong red reflected light from the fabric it is resting on, plus some intense glowing red sub-surface scattering in the toes at the border between light and shadow.
almost the same view as in the previous image, but zoomed in a bit closer to the foot, and overall the red reflected light is more intense
again a similar view, but this time zoomed out a bit more, with two feet in the frame rather than just one plus more of the lower legs they are attached to. here the light is a bit less bright and the shadows especially stark
again a similar view, but zoomed in, this time on both feet, with the light being brighter than before, and the overall red glow more intense
@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-07-28 13:04:34

How popular media gets love wrong
Okay, so what exactly are the details of the "engineered" model of love from my previous post? I'll try to summarize my thoughts and the experiences they're built on.
1. "Love" can be be thought of like a mechanism that's built by two (or more) people. In this case, no single person can build the thing alone, to work it needs contributions from multiple people (I suppose self-love might be an exception to that). In any case, the builders can intentionally choose how they build (and maintain) the mechanism, they can build it differently to suit their particular needs/wants, and they will need to maintain and repair it over time to keep it running. It may need winding, or fuel, or charging plus oil changes and bolt-tightening, etc.
2. Any two (or more) people can choose to start building love between them at any time. No need to "find your soulmate" or "wait for the right person." Now the caveat is that the mechanism is difficult to build and requires lots of cooperation, so there might indeed be "wrong people" to try to build love with. People in general might experience more failures than successes. The key component is slowly-escalating shared commitment to the project, which is negotiated between the partners so that neither one feels like they've been left to do all the work themselves. Since it's a big scary project though, it's very easy to decide it's too hard and give up, and so the builders need to encourage each other and pace themselves. The project can only succeed if there's mutual commitment, and that will certainly require compromise (sometimes even sacrifice, though not always). If the mechanism works well, the benefits (companionship; encouragement; praise; loving sex; hugs; etc.) will be well worth the compromises you make to build it, but this isn't always the case.
3. The mechanism is prone to falling apart if not maintained. In my view, the "fire" and "appeal" models of love don't adequately convey the need for this maintenance and lead to a lot of under-maintained relationships many of which fall apart. You'll need to do things together that make you happy, do things that make your partner happy (in some cases even if they annoy you, but never in a transactional or box-checking way), spend time with shared attention, spend time alone and/or apart, reassure each other through words (or deeds) of mutual beliefs (especially your continued commitment to the relationship), do things that comfort and/or excite each other physically (anywhere from hugs to hand-holding to sex) and probably other things I'm not thinking of. Not *every* relationship needs *all* of these maintenance techniques, but I think most will need most. Note especially that patriarchy teaches men that they don't need to bother with any of this, which harms primarily their romantic partners but secondarily them as their relationships fail due to their own (cultivated-by-patriarchy) incompetence. If a relationship evolves to a point where one person is doing all the maintenance (& improvement) work, it's been bent into a shape that no longer really qualifies as "love" in my book, and that's super unhealthy.
4. The key things to negotiate when trying to build a new love are first, how to work together in the first place, and how to be comfortable around each others' habits (or how to change those habits). Second, what level of commitment you have right now, and what how/when you want to increase that commitment. Additionally, I think it's worth checking in about what you're each putting into and getting out of the relationship, to ensure that it continues to be positive for all participants. To build a successful relationship, you need to be able to incrementally increase the level of commitment to one that you're both comfortable staying at long-term, while ensuring that for both partners, the relationship is both a net benefit and has manageable costs (those two things are not the same). Obviously it's not easy to actually have conversations about these things (congratulations if you can just talk about this stuff) because there's a huge fear of hearing an answer that you don't want to hear. I think the range of discouraging answers which actually spell doom for a relationship is smaller than people think and there's usually a reasonable "shoulder" you can fall into where things aren't on a good trajectory but could be brought back into one, but even so these conversations are scary. Still, I think only having honest conversations about these things when you're angry at each other is not a good plan. You can also try to communicate some of these things via non-conversational means, if that feels safer, and at least being aware that these are the objectives you're pursuing is probably helpful.
I'll post two more replies here about my own experiences that led me to this mental model and trying to distill this into advice, although it will take me a moment to get to those.
#relationships #love

@AimeeMaroux@mastodon.social
2025-07-27 10:31:39
Content warning:

It's the #DayOfHelios / Sol's Day / #Sunday! ☀️
"The Corinthians say that Poseidon had a dispute with Helios (the Sun) about the land [of Korinthia], and that Briareos [one of the Hekatoncheires] arbitrated between them, assigning to Poseidon the Isthmos and the parts adjoining…

Ceiling coffer from the 'Captives Facade' of the North Basilica of Ancient Corinth. A coffer is a sunken panel in a ceiling that is part of a series of grids that create a geometric pattern. It shows Helios, the Sun, with his iconic seven-spiked sun-ray crown. His hair is curly and of shoulder-length. He wears a chiton or a cloak that would be pinned over his right shoulder but the shoulder chipped off.

What Will It Cost to Renovate the ‘Free’ Air Force One?
Don’t Ask.
To hide the cost of renovating the plane Qatar donated to President Trump,
the Air Force appears to have tucked it inside an over-budget, behind-schedule nuclear modernization program.

@lilmikesf@c.im
2025-07-28 19:38:07

Wanna Feel Old? The Vans #WarpedTour is 30...
What Other #PunkRock Tour Admits It's Age And Sets Up Its Own Museum?
Kevin Lyman's Tour That First Tried To Bring #Sublime To America Returns To The

LBC PRESS-TELEGRAM


Vans Warped Tour’s 30th
anniversary is a love
letter to a scene that
never died.

Performances from day one included
The All-American Rejects, A Day to
Remember, Sublime, Pennywise,
Silverstein, Black Veil Brides, and more.



At Shoreline Waterfront in Long Beach, Sublime delivered a
hometown set on the Vans Left Foot Stage during Warped
Tour's 30th anniversary.
 (Photo by Holly Alvarado/SCNG)
Performance Highlights: From
Tony Hawk to Long Beach Legends
Goldfinger’s set brought one of the day's most unforgettable moments when skate legend Tony Hawk took the stage to sing “Superman,” the same track that helped define a generation via the Tony Hawks Pro Skater video game, released in '99. 

The crowd erupted, and fans like
Ish Costales of Monrovia, California, were visibly emotional. “I used to waste hours playing that game as a kid to just forget about school and life,” Costales said.…
“Need a shirt that says ‘I survived Warped Tour,” one fan joked in the comments, a phrase that just about summed it up.

Offstage: Record Labels, Skate
Ramps & Museum Moments

Beyond the music, the grounds paid homage to Warped’s roots. Skaters and BMX riders hit the half-pipe throughout the weekend, echoing the
early days when action sports and punk rock were side-by-side. A dedicated Record Label Row let fans engage with independent labels, snag exclusive merch, and meet artists. 

The Warped…
@leftsidestory@mstdn.social
2025-09-28 00:30:00

Concrete Jungle II 🏗️
水泥丛林 II 🏗️
📷 Pentax MX
🎞️ Ilford HP5 Plus, expired 1993
#filmphotography #Photography #blackandwhite

Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

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A monochrome image of a city walkway lined with trees and benches. The path is paved and flanked by modern buildings with large glass windows. Two people sit on a bench in the foreground, while others walk or stand further down the path. Each tree is planted in a rectangular plot filled with white stones. The photo has a grainy texture, suggesting it was taken with film or edited for a vintage look. The scene feels peaceful and urban, with a balance o…
Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

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A moody black-and-white photo of an urban scene. In the foreground, a tall streetlight stands beside bare tree branches that stretch across the frame. Two tall buildings rise in the background, one partially obscured and the other featuring a triangular architectural element at its peak. The sky is overcast or foggy, creating a somber, atmospheric tone. The contrast between the natural branches and rigid buildings adds visual tension and depth.

中文替代文…
Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

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A striking abstract sculpture made of stone stands outdoors in a modern urban setting. The sculpture features interlocking curved and rectangular shapes with ribbed textures, forming a complex geometric design. It rests on a circular base covered in white pebbles. Surrounding the sculpture are trees and sleek buildings, suggesting a public art installation. The interplay of shapes and textures invites interpretation, evoking thoughts of movement, bala…
Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

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A black-and-white photo of a quiet outdoor patio. Several wireframe chairs and a matching table sit on a grassy surface. The furniture is made of thin metal rods forming a mesh pattern, giving it a light, airy appearance. Behind the seating area is a modern building with large glass panels and vertical blinds, reflecting soft light. The composition is minimalistic, with clean lines and a mid-century modern aesthetic. Shadows from the furniture and bui…
@maxheadroom@hub.uckermark.social
2025-07-28 18:36:27

Dinner at last. Cut down two large dead trees today as they were at risk falling uncontrollable. Was a bit of effort to lower a fence and make sure they fall into the intended direction. Lots of ropes, pulleys and chainsaws involved. #Uckermark

A wooden table on a terrace overlooking a Garden onto a lake and forest. On the table in the front a plate filled with potatoe salad and 3 sausages. Topped with ketchup and mustard. Two bowls on the table. One has a lid on the other is open and seems to contain cucumber salad. A mustard mottle top down, ketchup bottle and bottle of some drink. Scene seems to be evening telling from the low angle sunshine on the opposite site of the lake on the forest.
A path through some lush green bushes and trees. Blocked by some red/white tape to deny trespassing. Same blockage can be seen on the distance about 30m onwards. A green fence on the right side.
A person with a high visibility jacked and green trousers walking towards some bushes and two large dead trees behind the bushes. There are various other trees in the background and on the left side. Large pines and some acacia.
@inthehands@hachyderm.io
2025-07-28 00:45:39

The result is a two-party system where the parties are going at cross purposes: one going full naked stinking fascist, and the other not pushing back in the opposite direction but just…pushing sideways, wishing for the resurrection of a party split that’s gone.
This may explain in part the endless appeal of the centrist mush-meal pitch: “We just need a party that meets these poor benighted Trump voters with common-sense answers to kitchen table issues!” That sounds like the way you win the 1932 presidential election! Yay!
7/

@mgorny@social.treehouse.systems
2025-08-28 18:15:15

1. Order two bags of cat litter.
2. The seller doesn't send it on time. No matter, you're not in a hurry.
3. Recall that they still didn't send it. Decide to resign.
4. Turns out they send it just before you resign.
5. The parcels come. Open the box.
6. Discover that the bag is damaged. Take a photo just in case.
7. Carefully take it out and check how damaged it is. Well, it's only ripped at the top, no point in returning it over that.
8. Notice they've sent the wrong litter (you've ordered non-scented) 🤦.
9. Call them asking whether there's a point in opening the other box. They say it's going to be the wrong litter too, just make a return request and attach photos.
10. You do that, requesting money return. They request you to make damage protocol from delivery company.
11. You do that. Maybe you'd agree to a 20 PLN discount for next shopping instead of returning two bags of the wrong cat litter?
12. They finally accept the return. And they prepare the return… for one bag 🤦.
So I was supposed to work less today. Instead, I've wasted a lot of time on dealing with damaged parcel and the vendor. And a lot of tape, so it wouldn't fall apart on the return journey.

@paulbusch@mstdn.ca
2025-09-28 12:37:02

On September 28th, 1867, Toronto officially became the capital city of the new Province of Ontario, and universally accepted as the centre of the universe. It was kind of a pity decision since Toronto had recently lost out to Ottawa when the Queen, the one in England, chose the capital for the Province of Canada. Confederation decreed that the Province of Canada would be split with Canada East becoming Quebec, and Canada West would now be known as Ontario. Toronto got the last laugh because the entire country now revolves around the city, at least in the minds of certain provincial politicians who may or may not want all of Canada to pay for a tunnel under #Hwy401.
#CanadaIsAwesome #CanadianCapitals
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toronto

@andres4ny@social.ridetrans.it
2025-07-28 21:17:15

I was late to pick my daughter up from camp because #NYCParks closed a huge portion of Corona-Meadows Flushing Park. Apparently for some kind of music festival. There was, of course, no bike detour. The area has highways running through it, and the bridges over the highways are cordoned off. How do you get to

View from an overpass bridge sidewalk, showing a chain-link fence at the end completely blocking access to the park. In the background, trees and the big.. I don' t even know what they are, sculptures?
A sign for KeineMusik Soulection, saying "there will be restricted park access july 21st - july 31st to the following areas: skate park, festival grounds, ny state pavilion, garden of meditation, and surrounding areas. The map shows an area of the park bordered by the Long Island Expressway (a highway) on one side, the Grand Central Parkway (a highway) on another side.
A pedstrian overpass entrance, showing 3 offset chain-link fences close together so that you can barely fit a bike (or stroller/wheelchair, for that matter).
@pbloem@sigmoid.social
2025-07-27 15:10:34

Here's an odd effect (stumbled on by accident). The blue loss curve is from a well-tuned BERT baseline (from the "cramming"paper).
The only thing I changed for the orange is to put a residual connection around each transformer block and to multiply the output of the block by a scalar parameter initialized to 0.
I'm surprised that has such a substantial impact. Not just on the performance, but on the shape of the loss curve.

Two loss curves from a transformer training experiment. One, in blue, has a slight bump and a quick drop. The other, in orange, drops more directly, but ends up about 0.2 nats above the blue one.
@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-09-28 12:14:11

Series C, Episode 10 - Ultraworld
[The door to the storage room opens. Three menials enter. One is Relf. Dayna holds her weapon on him. He watches as the other two menials remove one of the stored bodies. Dayna sneezes. Relf turns at the sound, but does not respond. She tests his response and gets none. The other two menials rejoin Relf, and all three exit.]
DAYNA: What now?

Claude 3.7 describes the image as: "This image appears to be a still from a television series, showing two individuals in what seems to be a dimly lit, futuristic setting. The scene captures an intense moment between the characters, with a blue-tinted background that suggests a spacecraft or technical environment. One person has curly hair and is wearing dark clothing, while the other is wearing what appears to be a reddish outfit. The lighting and cinematography have that distinctive vintage s…
@peterhoneyman@a2mi.social
2025-07-27 17:53:11

Last week, I finished a book that I really liked but the one I followed up with was a letdown so I reckoned I would finally read Elana Ferrante’s “My Brilliant Friend,” which everyone says is so great and it’s on my shelf anyway, bu then I found this old edition of GB Shaw plays and I’m reading that instead, Pygmalion first. It’s very funny — I laughed out loud in Act V. Also — spoiler alert! — it has a better ending than the 1964 film (which I love anyway!).

This photo shows the cover of a vintage hardcover book titled “Four Plays by Bernard Shaw.” The cover is a textured reddish-brown cloth with a black rectangular label centered near the top. The title and author’s name are stamped in gold lettering on the label:

FOUR  
PLAYS BY  
BERNARD  
SHAW

A gold-inked rectangular border surrounds the black label, and at the bottom right of the border is a small, stylized design that resembles a publisher’s colophon. The cover shows some wear, indicating …
Title page: 

FOUR PLAYS BY

BERNARD SHAW

CANDIDA
CAESAR AND CLEOPATRA
PYGMALION
HEARTBREAK HOUSE

INTRODUCTION BY
LOUIS KRONENBERGER

THE MODERN LIBRARY • NEW YORK
Copyright page:

CANDIDA: Copyright, 1898, by George Bernard Shaw
Renewal Copyright, 1926, by George Bernard Shaw

CESAR AND CLEOPATRA: Copyright, 1900, by Herbert S. Stone & Co.
Renewal Copyright, 1928, by George Bernard Shaw

PYGMALION: Copyright, 1913, by George Bernard Shaw
Renewal Copyright, 1941, by George Bernard Shaw

HEARTBREAK HOUSE: Copyright, 1919, by George Bernard Shaw
Renewal Copyright, 1947, by George Bernard Shaw

Copyright, 1953, by Random House, Inc.

All rights fully protect…
@hikingdude@mastodon.social
2025-08-26 17:45:37

Here are two of the #photos of last Saturday's hike. We went to the #wallberg above the #tegernsee .
Usually it's a quite crowded way because it's easily reachable and really very sc…

A serene black and white photo capturing the beauty of a lake nestled among a lush forest. The image showcases a tranquil scene with the still waters reflecting the surrounding trees. The misty atmosphere adds an ethereal quality to the landscape, enhancing the sense of mystery and tranquility. The dominant colors of grey and white create a soothing and timeless feel. This aerial view offers a peaceful escape into nature, inviting viewers to immerse themselves in the peacefulness of the scene. …
A black and white image depicting a building perched atop a hill, surrounded by fog and mist. A winding path leads up to the building, which is shrouded in a hazy atmosphere. The dominant colors in the image are white, black, and grey, creating a stark and moody landscape. In the foreground, a tower structure is visible, adding to the mysterious and eerie ambiance of the scene. The overall feeling of the image is one of solitude and isolation, with the building standing as a solitary beacon in …
@aral@mastodon.ar.al
2025-09-27 17:17:41

Hello all,
Well, this is an announcement I never wanted to make.
We discovered today that one of members, who, although he is from Gaza and a victim of genocide, has nevertheless not represented his current situation honestly. And I have had the terrible task of removing them and one of our new members, a friend of his, from Gaza Verified.
Now, before I tell you what happened, I want to stress this:
I am not saying they are not from Gaza or have not suffered from this…

@gedankenstuecke@scholar.social
2025-08-28 01:57:00

«erases the history&work of the people who quietly labored to create better digital services for the public; in their place, it proposes that one man alone can define “design” for the country. And we find that new definition in the way the site’s constructed: it is digital design intended for the privileged few, one that actively excludes people who don’t conform to a specific, discriminatory definition of “eligible.”»
Great piece by @… on the notional design studio
ethanmarcotte.com/wrote/a-noti

@Mediagazer@mstdn.social
2025-08-27 20:10:55

YouTube strikes a deal to carry Herring Networks' One America News on YouTube TV's base package in Q4 2025; in 2022, DirecTV and Verizon Fios dropped OANN (Justin Baragona/The Independent)
the-independent.com/news/world

@ruari@velocipederider.com
2025-08-27 06:59:12

I needed to bring a few things into the office today, which is always a bit annoying as my back tends to get hot when I cycle with a backpack on. Then I suddenly remembered that #TallBikesArePractical and I have a shit ton of storage space below me.
Look at my little backpack. It looks tiny down there! 🤏 🎒

Looking down at a blue tall bike from the point of view of the rider. It is possible to see the frame of the bike and one hand on the handlebars, along with the riders legs. Below that is a small black backpack strapped to the bottom of the frame.
@karlauerbach@sfba.social
2025-07-28 05:19:25

This story seems to be slipping between the cracks.
Apparently the Air Force has decided to undertake the conversion of that bribe 747 to FFOTUS - an amount that will probably well exceed a $billion or far more - under cover of a classified project to do something else.
This is a clear violation of the US Anti-deficiency act. It is theft of taxpayer money. And it violates the requirement that money only be spent after appropriation by Congress.
i have not seen any journal…

@arXiv_quantph_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-07-28 09:46:21

Wave packets, "negative times" and the elephant in the room
D. Sokolovski, A. Matzkin
arxiv.org/abs/2507.19105 arxiv.org/pdf/2507…

@jamie@boothcomputing.social
2025-09-28 19:13:34

Table legs attached to my Lego table. Just needs the leaves now and it will be done.
#woodworking
#inprogress

dark wooden table about 6 inches wide and 25" tall.  folded under the table are two legs with two vertical supports and two horizontal supports. the legs are folded under the table.
dark wooden table about 6 inches wide and 25" tall.  folded under the table are two legs with two vertical supports and two horizontal supports. the legs are open about 45 degrees on the near side.
dark wooden table about 6 inches wide and 25" tall.  folded under the table are two legs with two vertical supports and two horizontal supports. the legs are fully open at 90 degrees on one side.
dark wooden table from the top about 6 inches wide and 25" tall.  folded under the table are two legs with two vertical supports and two horizontal supports. the legs are folded out on both sides just far enough to be seen from the top.
@vosje62@mastodon.nl
2025-07-27 04:38:07

Global Water Supplies Threatened by Overmining of Aquifers: New Study — @…
propublica.org/article/water-a

So much groundwater is now being pumped that it is filling the oceans as it drains off land, becoming one of the largest drivers of global sea level rise.
Water From Land Has Become a Leading Driver of Sea Level Rise

Most of the water lost from drying regions is from groundwater pumping, which ultimately shifts fresh water from aquifers into the oceans.


Drying land
and aquifers

Melting
glaciers

Note: Glaciers refer to the parts of the continents covered in glaciers but excludes the ice sheets of Greenland and Antarctica. Drying land and aquifers refer to the water lost by the continents in areas not covered by glaciers, including river flow …
@benb@osintua.eu
2025-08-27 17:02:40

Security mechanism inspired by NATO Article 5 remains 'main one on the table,' Meloni says: benborges.xyz/2025/08/27/secur

@hynek@mastodon.social
2025-06-28 15:58:05

Disco Elysium – The Final Cut is 3.99 € on Steam.
Without exaggeration, this is one of the best games I’ve ever played.
store.steampowered.com/app/632

@Techmeme@techhub.social
2025-09-28 10:10:34

Experts warn that Nvidia's large investments in data centers and startups, almost like a stimulus program, could be artificially inflating demand for its GPUs (The Information)
theinformation.com/articles/je

@cjust@infosec.exchange
2025-09-27 19:04:17

10 lost works of Canadian art you'll wish you could see

Kinda thinking that at least one of these could see a comeback - albeit maybe not as an art installation so much as a reflection of a new Canadian-US relationship
via
flipboard.com/@cbc…


The art installation You Have Left the American Sector by Ron Terada removed by City of Windsor workers.
(Ron Terads)
You Have Left the American Sector by Ron Terada
In 2008, Vancouver artist Ron Terada installed a road sign along the riverfront walkway in Windsor, Ont. facing the Canada-US. border. In the green and white scheme of highway signage, it read, "You have left the American sector” with the French translation printed beneath, The artwork referenced the notices posted at Checkpoint C…
@cowboys@darktundra.xyz
2025-08-28 19:04:13

A timeline of the last 18 months of Micah Parsons' contract situation with the Cowboys dallascowboys.com/news/a-timel

@rasterweb@mastodon.social
2025-08-27 15:07:00

Today's ride on Hampton Avenue was much better! I just need to time it right. Wait for the light to turn green, wait until all the cars go through, then bike after them. I only need a gap of a few minutes to get past the gnarly part of the road.
The other tricky part is crossing Mayfair on the Menomonee Parkway. I actually get off the bike and walk it across there. No signals, not even for pedestrians so it's a rough one.

@aredridel@kolektiva.social
2025-09-28 03:31:43

eBike Nerdery
So the full decision matrix is:
- BBS02 48V 500W (750W) (a minor upgrade); would let me use a better battery and have a better margin when the battery gets low.
- BBSHD 48V or 52V (1000W); can be run with an extra spicy 52V battery for more power
- TSDZ8 48V 750W (1200W peak), the reengineered TSDZ2 with actual thermal capacity
- TSDZ16 48V 1000W (not sure what peak but geez that's a lot of motor)
- DM02 48V 500W (A team that made the TSDZ2 split off and went to make better motors)
- DM01 48V 1000W — I've not read up on it much but it's that same team I'm sure making a solid motor.
Also-rans:
- BBS02 36V 500W (existing motor); A spare would be nice so I can refurb mine without having to be without my bike.
- TSDZ2 48V 500W (I have one); tends to overheat and I ride hard. Not a winner.
- CYC motors: rather spendy. Nice stuff though.
- M625, M615, M225, M255: newer Bafang motors; more expensive, no real benefit, CAN bus is not well supported by third parties yet.
Pros of the Bafang BBS series: lots of parts available on the market. Lots of display options
Pros of the Tongsheng TSDZ series: Torque sensor!
Pros of the ToSeven DM series: Torque sensor, better build quality.

@elduvelle@neuromatch.social
2025-09-27 20:10:21

Interesting testimonies, I wonder what the men* think about "dating in 2025” (whether you're in the USA, like in the article, or elsewhere..)?
Generally, maybe people would be more happy if they paired up with someone else independently of that person's gender, but focusing more on shared values and goals? Our societies are very "husband & wife" - oriented, but they don't have to!
‘Men seem to make life for women worse’: single US women share the woes of dating in 2025

@ripienaar@devco.social
2025-08-28 06:40:51

opensourcesecurity.io/2025/08-
Great article.

@arXiv_mathDG_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-08-28 08:47:21

The index of the cosmological horizon and the area-charge-inequality
Neilha Pinheiro
arxiv.org/abs/2508.19490 arxiv.org/pdf/2508.19490

@UP8@mastodon.social
2025-08-27 01:53:55

Row of townhouse apartments at the Maplewood complex on Veterans Place Rd, Ithaca NY
#photo #photography #buildings

9 crenelations of a long apartment buildings go from the distance in the far left off the right side of the frame,  most of these are yellow but some are grey,  some look like they're made of brick, others look like wood siding,  there are always three rows of windows but the designs are mixed up to keep it interesting,  close cropped grass is in front,  one tree is visible behind the building and one big cumulus cloud in blue sky
@axbom@axbom.me
2025-06-28 05:59:03

When I bring up how children work in artisanal mines in DR Congo and Madagascar to harvest the minerals the rich world needs for its tech, there is one type of comment that comes up more than others:

"Yes, but the working conditions of the people making high street clothes is also awful. It's so hard to do the right thing these days."

I truly have a hard time understanding what this comment is really getting at it. It feels like it's trying to tone down the …

@netzschleuder@social.skewed.de
2025-08-28 03:00:04

foodweb_baywet: Florida cypress wetlands food web (1998)
Networks of carbon exchanges among species in the cypress wetlands of South Florida. One network covers the wet and the other the dry season. Each node represents a taxon (similar to a species), and a directed edge indicates that one taxon uses another as food.
This network has 128 nodes and 2106 edges.
Tags: Biological, Food web, Weighted

foodweb_baywet: Florida cypress wetlands food web (1998). 128 nodes, 2106 edges. https://networks.skewed.de/net/foodweb_baywet
@davidaugust@mastodon.online
2025-09-27 00:47:35

A one-time national guardsman, who deployed for civil affairs, can absolutely lecture *checks notes* the most senior generals and admirals in the US armed forces on whatever “warrior ethos” is.
It’s a protein powder, right? Warrior Ethos sounds like a protein powder available from the tiktok shop.

@tezoatlipoca@mas.to
2025-09-25 21:57:26

Garbage. Ppl pay for this?
My prompt was `Edward Hopper's American Gothic but with two robots` and it didn't even include a pitchfork.
#microsoft

American Robot Gothic attempt 1: its a farm house ok. The two robots look like the one from Lost In Space a bit, all metallic. 
There's some humanoid wearing a sunhat in the background; is he their master? Is he enslaved?  Is he a Solaran from Asimov's Robot/Foundation novels and his mutant telekenesis is how the Robots are powered?
American Robot Gothic #2 - a farmhouse (ok) but against a backdrop of oil derricks (fitting) with two Iron Giant style monstrosities who look like they're ready to stomp the house for being woke. What looks like an Edsel is in the driveway. Some weird abstract porch chairs sit... err float.. disjointedly on the porch. The Iron couple's robot progeny play "RoboCops and Humans" on one side of the porch. The light is that of dusk, about the time that the street lights would come on and all good ro…
American Robot Gothic attempt #3: farmhouse check. Someone is burning insurance papers in the basement furnace as black smoke eminates from the chimney.. and also from the old style TV antennae for some reason. There are two "tin can man" style robots with red eyes and antennae ears in the foreground with exposed hoses and articulations at joints, but they're not standing side by side and neither has a pitchfork. 

The SPirit of St. Lois flies in the sky along with... Skylab?! for some reason…
American Robot Gothic pathetic attempt 4:

Another farmhouse (ok). Anthropromorphized robots stand in the foreground (one wears a metal dress). Again, no pitchforks.  A masonic temple and... The Sears building ? appear in the background. The two (rightful) human owners of the house sit smug in their rocking chairs looking on as another human - who looks like Elon Musk with a Ron Jeremy eyebrows and mustache roars off in a 1937 Ford Two Door roadster, like he's the evil banker that just forecl…
@cosmos4u@scicomm.xyz
2025-08-27 21:12:10

The underground “Jiangmen Underground #Neutrino Observatory" (JUNO) near Jiangmen city in the Guangdong Province has successfully completed the filling of its 20,000 tons of liquid scintillator and begun data taking: prisma.uni-mainz.de/outreach/p - JUNO will tackle one of this decade’s major open questions in particle physics, the ordering of neutrino masses i.e. whether the third mass state (ν₃) is heavier than the second (ν₂).

@jamesthebard@social.linux.pizza
2025-09-26 19:19:16

A couple of extra photos of the CMPTR board and how it hooks up to the PVM. It's still crazy that Sony decided to use a DB25 cable for RGB/RGBI/CGA/audio...not sure if it wouldn't have been easier to just break those out on the back. Either way, it's not something I have to worry about again.
I'll end up posting the schematic and PCB stuff once I verify that the 2.1 version of the board doesn't have the same issues that this one does. They're minor, but I want…

The CMPTR breakout board with RGB and sync signals connected in the front.  The DB25 cable is connected to the back of the board sitting on top of the TV.
The back of the Sony PVM-2530 showing how everything connects.
@scott@carfree.city
2025-07-28 03:08:17

IDEA: on one-way streets, let's make the sidewalks one-way too! To walk in the other direction, you'd first travel one block perpendicularly, to the next street over.
Or maybe that would be ridiculous and we shouldn't do bike lanes that way either? Hard to say

@thomastraynor@social.linux.pizza
2025-08-28 17:58:31

Sigh, cleanup of decommissioned jobs has rarely been done.
Minor quirk in the schedule and going through it I identified dozens of entries that are not run any more, but listed as dependencies. Time to add that to the release schedule for the future. If the job(s) are gone then remove them from the schedule and if the schedule app group then remove the whole APP and nuke the dependencies on that too. Stuff going back almost 20 years is still there and no one took the time to clean i…

@arXiv_hepph_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-08-28 08:42:41

Scalar leptoquark contributions to the $gg\rightarrow Zh$ process
Shi-Ping He
arxiv.org/abs/2508.19642 arxiv.org/pdf/2508.19642

@simon_brooke@mastodon.scot
2025-08-27 06:48:16

Having not written anything about my #tricycle project in months, I've now written two posts in two days. Here's the first:
#BikeTooter
Rethinking the tricycle drive train

@crell@phpc.social
2025-09-28 16:34:14

This excellent piece by Ken White is long, but worth your time to read if you want to understand how and why public discourse in America is broken.
popehat.com/p/how-free-speech-

@arXiv_mathCO_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-07-28 09:03:11

The Density of Zero and One in Fibonacci Word for Subwords and Their Palindromes
Duaa Abdullah, Jasem Hamoud
arxiv.org/abs/2507.19351 arxiv…

@mcdanlj@social.makerforums.info
2025-07-28 12:11:19

I'm apparently one of very many people who really enjoy Arvo Pärt's music. ❤️
theguardian.com/music/2025/jul

The Food and Drug Administration on Wednesday approved updated Covid vaccines for the fall season that limit who can get the shots
-- the federal government’s most restrictive policy since the vaccines became available.
The agency authorized the vaccines for people who are 65 and older, who are known to be more vulnerable to severe illness from Covid.
Younger people would only be eligible if they had at least one underlying medical condition that would put them at risk for s…

@qurlyjoe@mstdn.social
2025-06-28 13:37:18

#Caturday

3-panel XKCD comic.
1st panel: Girl and a guy talking. "Shining laser pointers at planes is a federal crime. It's incredibly dangerous.
Oh, because it can blind the pilot?
That's one reason.
2nd panel: Airliner flying overhead. Green laser light reaches up from the ground to the plane.
3rd panel: A cat has leapt up to knock the plane out of the sky.
@shriramk@mastodon.social
2025-07-27 01:34:28

TIL that one of the singers on one of my favorite blues bands, the very entertaining "Saffire: the Uppity Blues Women", used to be a computer programmer. I'm sure she was great at that too, but I'm glad she gave it up!

@arXiv_mathLO_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-08-28 08:16:51

The category of propositional deductive systems
Ciro Russo
arxiv.org/abs/2508.19426 arxiv.org/pdf/2508.19426

@arXiv_mathAP_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-07-28 09:31:41

On the convergence of PINNs for inverse source problem in the complex Ginzburg-Landau equation
Xing Cheng, Zhiyuan Li, Mengmeng Zhang, Xuezhao Zhang
arxiv.org/abs/2507.18978

@arXiv_astrophHE_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-07-28 09:45:31

Constraining the origin of the highest-energy cosmic-ray events detected by the Pierre Auger Observatory: a three-dimensional approach
Marta Bianciotto (for the Pierre Auger Collaboration)
arxiv.org/abs/2507.19216

@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-06-28 13:30:10

In Ursula K. Le Guin's "A Man of the People" (part of "Four Ways to Forgiveness") there's a scene where the Hainish protagonist begins studying history. It's excellent in many respects, but what stood out the most to me was the softly incomprehensible idea of a people with multiple millions of years of recorded history. As one's mind starts to try to trace out the implications of that, it dawns on you that you can't actually comprehend the concept. Like, you read the sentence & understood all the words, and at first you were able to assemble them into what seemed like a conceptual understanding, but as you started to try to fill out that understating, it began to slip away, until you realized you didn't in fact have the mental capacity to build a full understanding and would have you paper things over with a shallow placeholder instead.
I absolutely love that feeling, as one of the ways in which reading science fiction can stretch the brain, and I connected it to a similar moment in Tsutomu Nihei's BLAME, where the android protagonists need to ride an elevator through the civilization/galaxy-spanning megastructure, and turn themselves off for *millions of years* to wait out the ride.
I'm not sure why exactly these scenes feel more beautifully incomprehensible than your run-of-the-mill "then they traveled at lightspeed for a millennia, leaving all their family behind" scene, other than perhaps the authors approach them without trying to use much metaphor to make them more comprehensible (or they use metaphor to emphasize their incomprehensibility).
Do you have a favorite mind=expanded scene of this nature?
#AmReading

@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-09-27 15:24:20

Series C, Episode 07 - Children of Auron
C.A. TWO: Unlike the youngsters. So what do we do?
C.A. ONE: Evacuation.
FRANTON: It's probably Auron's only chance now.
C.A. ONE: Why aren't you at the replication plant?
FRANTON: Off shift, unfortunately.
blake.torpidity.net/m/307/129

Claude Sonnet 4.0 describes the image as: "This appears to be a scene set aboard a spacecraft, likely showing crew members in their typical gray uniforms with distinctive insignia. The setting has the characteristic futuristic interior design of the series, with geometric patterns visible in the background and what appears to be control panels or technical equipment. The two figures are positioned near what looks like ship's equipment, suggesting this takes place in a working area of the vessel…
@peterhoneyman@a2mi.social
2025-09-27 20:57:10

Off to Detroi to see Deltron 3030 at the Majestic!
We’re checked into the Ferry St. Inn, in this stately old mansion, one of four tucked behind the DIA. We’re in the maid’s quarters, a third story walk up. We’ve stayed here before.

This photo shows a beautiful historic stone house with distinctive Romanesque Revival architecture. The building is constructed from gray limestone blocks, giving it a substantial, fortress-like appearance. Key architectural features include:
	•	A prominent arched entrance with thick stone framing
	•	Multiple tall chimneys rising from the slate or dark shingle roof
	•	A steep triangular gable with three grouped windows
	•	Various window styles throughout, including some with decorative stone tr…
This photo shows a guest room with a warm, inviting atmosphere. The room features:

Bed and Furnishings:
	•	A queen-size bed with crisp white linens and multiple pillows
	•	A substantial wooden headboard with panel detailing in a dark wood finish
	•	A matching wooden nightstand with a table lamp featuring a white shade
Room Details:
	•	Sage green or olive-colored walls that create a calming ambiance
	•	Beige/tan carpeting throughout
	•	Two framed artwork pieces hanging on the wall above the bed…
@AimeeMaroux@mastodon.social
2025-06-28 18:00:09
Content warning:

Have a joyful #DayOfDionysos here at Erotic Mythology! 🍇
"Androgynos (androgynous): [A word applied to] Dionysos, as one doing both active, male things and passive, female ones [specifically sexual intercourse]."
Byzantine Greek lexicon Suidas, entry Androgynos
🏛 A Roman silver ring with erotic intaglio, 3rd century CE
@…

A Roman silver ring with erotic intaglio depicting two men and a woman engaging in a "love chain" with the woman reclining on a couch, receiving one of the men and the other man fucking him in the butt. A large phallus is depicted on the left to the scene, possibly for good luck.
@detondev@social.linux.pizza
2025-08-27 05:33:20

its been 5 years and the illegal chinese fishing boat massacre article still doesnt have a movie based on it
wordswithoutborders.org/read/a

@mgorny@social.treehouse.systems
2025-08-28 07:49:25

What's the point of installing an electronic timetable on a small train stop? Next to the paper one, of course. The kind that only displays the planned timetable, not the current departures. And of course the arrival platform is announced via loudspeakers after the barriers are closed.
#rail

George Conway:
"It's absurd to think that … the government of the United States that [the people] pay for, that they vote for, is really in service of one man. ... He is using every arm of the government to create pleasure for himself … and also to seek vengeance upon his enemies."

@inthehands@hachyderm.io
2025-07-28 00:40:17

[disclaimer: not a political scientist, talking out of my ass]
For the two parties are going to divide up the electorate, if one is the fascist party, maybe the other •has• to be the anti-fascist party — not just philosophically, but for practical reasons. Maybe you just can’t maintain a viable coalition to oppose a fascist party without bringing everyone who opposes fascism into your coalition. Sure feels that way now.
5/

@netzschleuder@social.skewed.de
2025-06-28 08:00:04

foodweb_baywet: Florida cypress wetlands food web (1998)
Networks of carbon exchanges among species in the cypress wetlands of South Florida. One network covers the wet and the other the dry season. Each node represents a taxon (similar to a species), and a directed edge indicates that one taxon uses another as food.
This network has 128 nodes and 2106 edges.
Tags: Biological, Food web, Weighted

foodweb_baywet: Florida cypress wetlands food web (1998). 128 nodes, 2106 edges. https://networks.skewed.de/net/foodweb_baywet
@Techmeme@techhub.social
2025-06-28 01:45:54

The term "context engineering" is gaining traction over "prompt engineering" as it better describes the skill of providing LLMs with the necessary information (Simon Willison/Simon Willison's Weblog)
simonwillison.net/2025/Jun/27/

@leftsidestory@mstdn.social
2025-06-28 02:07:28

City Corners 🏙️
城市角落 🏙️
📷 Minolta Hi-Matic AF
🎞️ILFORD FP4 Plus, expired 1995
buy me ☕️ ?/请我喝杯☕️?
#filmphotography

Ilford FP4 @ ISO 64

English alt text: Several potted plants, including tulips and leafy greens, are arranged on a surface against a wall. A circular cutout in the wall casts light and shadows, creating an artistic, serene atmosphere.

中文替代文字: 几个盆栽植物(包括郁金香和绿叶植物)整齐地摆放在一面墙前。墙上的圆形切口投射出光影,营造出一种艺术感和平静的氛围。
Ilford FP4 @ ISO 64

English alt text: A black and white photo of a simple wooden structure resembling a ladder or scaffolding, leaning against a wall. A cloth or tarp drapes loosely over one of the horizontal beams, while dappled shadows from nearby foliage create a play of light on the surface.

中文替代文字: 一张黑白照片展示了一个靠在墙上的简易木结构,类似梯子或脚手架。一个布料或帆布随意披在横梁上,附近植物的斑驳阴影投射在墙上,营造出光影交错的效果。
Ilford FP4 @ ISO 64

English alt text: A black and white image of a public art installation featuring three stylized, flat human silhouettes standing side by side. The central figure has a square graphic on its chest with the word “SOHO” printed on it. Behind the figures are trees, a railing, and urban architecture, lending a modern and minimalistic atmosphere.

中文替代文字: 一张黑白照片展示了一个公共艺术装置,由三个并排站立的人形剪影组成,中间的剪影胸前有一个印有“SOHO”字样的方形图案。背景中有树木、栏杆和城市建筑,营造出现代简约的氛围。
Ilford FP4 @ ISO 64

English alt text: A black and white photo of a bicycle parked beneath a small structure, possibly a staircase or canopy. The bike and overhead beams cast sharp, defined shadows on the concrete ground, with a circular manhole cover visible to the left. The dramatic lighting and contrast give the scene an atmospheric, almost cinematic quality.

中文替代文字: 一张黑白照片展示了一辆停在简易结构下的自行车,可能是楼梯或遮棚。自行车和上方横梁在混凝土地面上投下清晰锐利的阴影,左侧可见一个圆形井盖。光影的强烈对比赋予画面一种富有氛围的电影感。
@andres4ny@social.ridetrans.it
2025-06-28 16:58:23

One of the reasons I appreciate walking, biking, and public transit so much (aside from just being a more joyful/connected way to travel, and better for our environment) is because they starve so many absolutely awful billionaires/corporations/oligarchs of profit. Oil companies, car manufacturers, large chain stores..

@paulbusch@mstdn.ca
2025-09-27 11:42:41

Good Morning #Canada
After recently moving to Belle Ewart (Bell You-wart), I find myself making strange pronunciations of my town to see people's reactions. Life is short... take pleasure where you can. But if you're a Canadian living in one of the towns mentioned in this CBC article, do you proudly tell people where you live, or do you mumble the answer and hope no one responds. I think you embrace the fun and show pride in your community by investing in t-shirts and hats emblazoned with your town name. But that's just me - some old retired guy with no reputation worth saving.
BTW, if you're looking for a conversation starter, here's a Geographic Fact - the distance between Dildo Newfoundland and Climax Saskatchewan is 5,551 km, about 2 days and 16 hours by car.
#CanadaIsAwesome #CivicPride
cbc.ca/television/stillstandin

@karlauerbach@sfba.social
2025-08-26 22:57:03

Gawd the maga nutz are going crazy about the California redistricting.
We got THREE loud screaming opposition mailers today, including the one that falsely claims that the League of Women Voters is against the redistricting.

@arXiv_quantph_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-08-27 10:08:23

Controlling the $\mathcal{PT}$ Symmetry Breaking Threshold in Bipartite Lattice Systems with Floquet Topological Edge States
Xinguang Li, Hongzheng Wu, Yangchun Zhao, Jinpeng Xiao, Yu Guo, Lei Li, Yajiang Chen, Xiaobing Luo
arxiv.org/abs/2508.18931

@UP8@mastodon.social
2025-08-27 01:34:25

I think this is 𝐿𝑎𝑝𝑠𝑎𝑛𝑎 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑚𝑢𝑛𝑖𝑠, the common nipplewort, one of many aster-family flowers I see in Shindagin Hollow State Forest
#photo #photography #bloomscrolling

A yellow aster-family plant with two head-on flowers seen towards the upper left and one edge on at the lower left attached to a branching structure where there are some seeds I think sticking out to the lower right as well as some flowers budding at the upper left,  behind out of focus are patches of green and brown
@arXiv_mathDG_bot@mastoxiv.page
2025-07-28 08:51:51

Infinite graphs satisfying the Bakry-Emery curvature condition CD(0, n): The modified heat equation and applications to geometric analysis
Emmanuel Russ (I2M), Herv\'e Pajot (IF)
arxiv.org/abs/2507.19235

@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-07-27 09:42:37

Series A, Episode 12 - Deliverance
BLAKE: What?
JENNA: [V.O.] Out.
[Cephlon. The launch room.]
JENNA: They're on their way.
AVON: So are they. [Presses a switch and the final countdown begins on the monitors.]
blake.torpidity.net/m/112/442 B7B2

Claude Sonnet 4.0 describes the image as: "This scene appears to be set aboard a spacecraft, likely the Liberator, showing the ship's sleek, futuristic interior with characteristic lighting and control surfaces. The setting has the distinctive aesthetic of the series - clean lines, metallic surfaces, and ambient lighting that creates dramatic shadows. Two characters are positioned at what appears to be a control station or bridge area. One character is seated at the controls while another stand…
@tiotasram@kolektiva.social
2025-07-28 10:41:42

How popular media gets love wrong
Had some thoughts in response to a post about loneliness on here. As the author emphasized, reassurances from people who got lucky are not terribly comforting to those who didn't, especially when the person who was lucky had structural factors in their favor that made their chances of success much higher than those is their audience. So: these are just my thoughts, and may not have any bearing on your life. I share them because my experience challenged a lot of the things I was taught to believe about love, and I think my current beliefs are both truer and would benefit others seeing companionship.
We're taught in many modern societies from an absurdly young age that love is not something under our control, and that dating should be a process of trying to kindle love with different people until we meet "the one" with whom it takes off. In the slightly-less-fairytale corners of modern popular media, we might fund an admission that it's possible to influence love, feeding & tending the fire in better or worse ways. But it's still modeled as an uncontrollable force of nature, to be occasionally influenced but never tamed. I'll call this the "fire" model of love.
We're also taught (and non-boys are taught more stringently) a second contradictory model of love: that in a relationship, we need to both do things and be things in order to make our partner love us, and that if we don't, our partner's love for us will wither, and (especially if you're not a boy) it will be our fault. I'll call this the "appeal" model of love.
Now obviously both of these cannot be totally true at once, and plenty of popular media centers this contradiction, but there are really very few competing models on offer.
In my experience, however, it's possible to have "pre-meditated" love. In other words, to decide you want to love someone (or at least, try loving them), commit to that idea, and then actually wind up in love with them (and them with you, although obviously this second part is not directly under your control). I'll call this the "engineered" model of love.
Now, I don't think that the "fire" and "appeal" models of love are totally wrong, but I do feel their shortcomings often suggest poor & self-destructive relationship strategies. I do think the "fire" model is a decent model for *infatuation*, which is something a lot of popular media blur into love, and which drives many (but not all) of the feelings we normally associate with love (even as those feelings have other possible drivers too). I definitely experienced strong infatuation early on in my engineered relationship (ugh that sounds terrible but I'll stick with it; I promise no deception was involved). I continue to experience mild infatuation years later that waxes and wanes. It's not a stable foundation for a relationship but it can be a useful component of one (this at least popular media depicts often).
I'll continue these thoughts in a reply, by it might take a bit to get to it.
#relationships

@mgorny@social.treehouse.systems
2025-09-26 19:14:21

Really silly dream
I had a really silly #dream recently. I dreamt that my CFL broke. Or more specifically, it kept trying to turn out, successive parts of it were lighting up, then it all went off and tried again. And it looked like it had a bunch of cuts across it, and around these cuts little thunder sparks started appearing, like some kind of STALKER-like anomaly.
I finally flipped the switch, but the anomaly remained, and I wanted to get rid of it in case the sparks could jump onto my hardware and damage something. So I threw a metal bowl towards it, supposing the thunder would jump onto it. While it was flying near the anomaly, it slowed down and started turning back like a boomerang. On top of that, pieces of cat food (don't ask me why I threw a full bowl) were getting out of it and staying in the air levitating. When the bowl reached the floor and started turning again, Mr Ek came close to it and started levitating himself; he was sitting a few centimeters above the floor.
In the middle of all this, I've figured out I should record it. I took a bunch of photos with my phone, before I managed to switch to recording video.
Once I've recorded the fascinating flying bowls and levitating cat food, I needed to go back to discharging the thing. I threw a second metal bowl, and that one started levitating as well. I've figured out that's stupid, and I've found some big ass hammer with a metal end and a wooden handle. I held the end near the lamp to charge it, then tried to find something to discharge it to. I've tried some small stuff like the door handle, but obviously that wasn't sufficient. Finally, I've figured out to use the electricity box, since it is grounded. I held the hammer to it, watching sparks light the semi-darkness; I've recorded that as well.
And that's how much of it I remember.

@netzschleuder@social.skewed.de
2025-08-27 04:00:03

karate: Zachary Karate Club
Network of friendships among members of a university karate club. Includes metadata for faction membership after a social partition. Note: there are two versions of this network, one with 77 edges and one with 78, due to an ambiguous typo in the original study. (The most commonly used is the one with 78 edges.).
This network has 34 nodes and 78 edges.
Tags: Social, Offline, Unweighted

karate: Zachary Karate Club. 34 nodes, 78 edges. https://networks.skewed.de/net/karate#78
@leftsidestory@mstdn.social
2025-08-27 00:30:01

Uneven Lives VI 👁️
不工整人生 VI 👁️
📷 Minolta Hi-Matic AF
🎞️ERA 100, expired 1994
#filmphotography #Photography #blackandwhite

• English Alt Text: Black and white photo of a busy urban street with people standing and conversing on the sidewalk, one person leaning against a wall using a phone, and reflections in glass adding depth; cars, buses, and buildings visible in the background.
• 中文替代文字: 黑白街景照片,几位行人站在人行道上交谈,一人靠墙看手机,玻璃反射增添层次感;背景中有汽车、公交车和建筑物。
• English Alt Text: Black and white image of a street with a truck, a black car, and a white car; two people in the foreground, one wearing a hat and standing, the other wearing a cap and mask while looking at a phone; buildings and trees behind a fence in the background.
• 中文替代文字: 黑白街道照片,左侧有卡车,中间是黑色轿车,右侧是白色轿车;前景中两人,一人戴帽站立,另一人戴鸭舌帽和口罩看手机;背景有建筑和树木,被围栏隔开。
• English Alt Text: Black and white photograph of modern high-rise buildings with stepped architecture and many windows, set against a partly cloudy sky.
• 中文替代文字: 黑白照片展示现代高层建筑,结构呈阶梯状,窗户众多,背景是部分多云的天空。
• English Alt Text: Black and white photo of an urban lot filled with rubble, debris, and overgrown plants; two vehicles are parked in the center, with tall buildings in the background, a fence on the right, and trees on the left.
• 中文替代文字: 黑白城市空地照片,地面布满瓦砾、杂物和杂草,中间停着两辆车;背景是高层建筑,右侧有围栏,左侧是树木。

In May, the Supreme Court cleared the way for the Trump administration to strip
temporary legal protection
from hundreds of thousands of Venezuelans living in the United States.
Overnight, TPS holders , found themselves without status—despite following all the rules.
Trump’s termination of TPS for Venezuelans is part of the largest delegalization campaign in modern US history.
“A single act of stripping immigration status in one fell swoop,”
said Ahilan A…

@Techmeme@techhub.social
2025-08-28 06:31:02

How legacy carmakers fell behind Tesla and Chinese EV brands in software, as a Toyota Woven engineer says the company's new Arene platform is "full of bugs" (Financial Times)
ft.com/content/d5d5b7fb-30fc-4

@inthehands@hachyderm.io
2025-08-25 23:27:54

Oh, Hacker News…FFS. Something got lost in the sad game of Popular Press Telephone between the actual study and this snotty post.
The actual study is here:
acpjournals.org/doi/10.7326/AN
It notes that:
1. Most research on air cleaning devices used air samples, not human health outcomes. (It’s far more difficult to conduct a study on the latter.)
2. Not many people are studying whether e.g. UV air purifiers create toxic byproducts.
3. The available studies sure do measure a whole bunch of different things, and wouldn’t it be nice if they had more consistent standards.
Their main recommendation is basically “scientists should do more studies where they measure infection in humans, not just germs in the air.” And that’s fair: It’s reasonable to •guess• that fewer germs in the air means less sickness, but it’s nice to actually •test• that!
However, AFAICT, nothing in the study warrants the “tinfoil hats” remark. Unlike a tinfoil hats, we have plenty good reason to think at least some of these devices actually work; the paper just wants the research to go deeper. It’s one giant “further study needed.” mastodon.social/@ngate/1150917

@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-06-28 15:26:48

Series A, Episode 04 - Time Squad
JENNA: To transport what?
VILA: Do we care?
JENNA: [Slight laugh] Getting nervous?
VILA: No, I've been nervous all along. I do not like the look of that thing.
BLAKE: Zen, have the sensors picked up any sign of life?
blake.torpidity.net/m/104/72

Claude Sonnet 4.0 describes the image as: "I can see two people in what appears to be a futuristic spacecraft setting, consistent with science fiction television production values of the late 1970s. The scene takes place in what looks like a ship's interior with metallic surfaces and technical equipment visible in the background. One person is wearing earth-toned clothing while the other is dressed in lighter colored attire. The lighting and composition suggest this is from a dramatic scene, wi…
@netzschleuder@social.skewed.de
2025-09-28 02:00:03

add_health: Adolescent health (ADD HEALTH) (1994)
A directed network of friendships obtained through a social survey of high school students in 1994. The ADD HEALTH data are constructed from the in-school questionnaire; 90,118 students representing 84 communities took this survey in 1994-95. Some communities had only one school; others had two. Where there are two schools in a community students from one school were allowed to name friends in the other, the "sister school".…

add_health: Adolescent health (ADD HEALTH) (1994). 357 nodes, 1010 edges. https://networks.skewed.de/net/add_health#comm55

Fear of immigration raids force the cancellation of several July festivities in Los Angeles
Several communities in Los Angeles County have called off or postponed their previously scheduled Independence Day and July events, citing resident safety amid ongoing immigration enforcement raids.
The El Sereno Bicentennial Committee was one of the first organizations to announce the cancellation of its 66th Independence Day Parade in a June 20 statement on Facebook.
“We stand wi…

@Techmeme@techhub.social
2025-09-27 06:36:02

A look at some California tech regulation bills, including one banning AI use in firing or disciplining workers, that await Gov. Newsom's signature or his veto (Brian Merchant/Blood in the Machine)
bloodinthemachine.com/p/were-a

@leftsidestory@mstdn.social
2025-07-28 02:44:05

Urban Diaspora IV 🎈
城市放逐 IV 🎈
📷 Nikon FE
🎞️Ilford FP4 Plus, expired 1994
buy me ☕️ ?/请我喝杯☕️?
#filmphotography

Ilford FP4 Plus 125 (FF)

• English Alt Text: A person sits on a bench in a shaded outdoor area, reading a book. The setting includes leafy trees, a curved concrete structure, and a circular planter filled with pebbles.
• 中文替代文本:一个人坐在阴凉的户外长椅上阅读书籍。环境中有茂密的树木、弯曲的混凝土结构和一个装满鹅卵石的圆形花坛。
Ilford FP4 Plus 125 (FF)

• English Alt Text: A handwritten sign in Chinese is attached to a gated entrance. Two people are positioned near the gate, one standing and one seated. In the background, parked cars and a building with multiple windows are visible. The sign lists various cakes and baked items repeatedly, such as “coffee,” “oven cake,” and multiple entries of “cake.”
• 中文替代文本:一个手写的中文招牌贴在门口的铁栅栏上,门附近有两个人,一人站着一人坐着。背景中可见停着的车辆和一栋有多个窗户的建筑。招牌上反复列出各类蛋糕和烘焙食品,如“咖啡”、“烤箱蛋糕”和大量“蛋糕”的字样。
Ilford FP4 Plus 125 (FF)

• English Alt Text: A black-and-white photo of people sitting outdoors on a brick ledge near a tree. The group is partially shaded with sunlight filtering through, and they appear absorbed in their phones or devices. Bags and belongings are placed around them, and the background includes greenery and a plain building wall. The monochrome tone evokes a reflective or timeless atmosphere.
• 中文替代文本:一张黑白照片,几个人坐在室外砖砌的台阶上,旁边有一棵树。阳光从树叶间穿透,给画面带来阴影感,他们似乎都专注于手机或其他设备。周围放有背包和物品,背景是…
Ilford FP4 Plus 125 (FF)

• English Alt Text: A lively outdoor scene shows people gathered in a shaded, park-like area near a tree-lined street. Some individuals are sitting on benches or ledges, while others stand beside bicycles and motorcycles. A prominent traffic sign on the left warns drivers to slow down near a school zone, with pictograms of children and Chinese text. The environment suggests a casual social gathering in an urban neighborhood, highlighting community life and pedestrian s…
@inthehands@hachyderm.io
2025-08-28 18:11:43

More quotable quotes from Krugman:
❝Market pricing almost never takes into account the possibility of huge, disruptive events, even when the strong possibility of such events should be obvious. The usual pattern, instead, is one of market complacency until the last possible moment. That is, markets act as if everything is normal until it’s blindingly obvious that it isn’t.❞
1/2

As Susie Madrak noted here,
"Democrats have one ask:
fund healthcare, in the form of extending ACA subsidies and restoring funding to Medicaid that was cut in Trump's Big Beautiful Ugly Bill."
But we're hearing Republicans, who have the House, the Senate, the presidency, and the Supreme Court,
say that Democrats are holding the country hostage.
The White House's response to Democrats wanting to secure health coverage for 20 million America…

@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-08-28 09:19:58

Series B, Episode 08 - Hostage
AVON: Blake may need some help.
VILA: And that concerns you?
JENNA: But you've been against it all until now.
AVON: I know, but I'm still going down. Vila?
JENNA: [To Cally] You know what all this is about, don't you?
blake.torpidity.net/m/208/317

Claude Sonnet 4.0 describes the image as: "This scene shows two crew members aboard the Liberator spacecraft. One character wears a distinctive black leather outfit with studded details, while the other is dressed in brown leather. They appear to be having an intense conversation in what looks like the ship's flight deck or control area, with the characteristic curved walls and technical equipment visible in the background. The futuristic set design features the show's typical metallic and angu…
@Techmeme@techhub.social
2025-07-27 17:01:17

An interview with CEO David Baszucki on Roblox's origin story, what's next for the gaming platform whose shares have risen about 200% in the past year, and more (Tim Fernholz/Sherwood News)
sherwood.news/tech/he-didnt-se

@leftsidestory@mstdn.social
2025-09-26 00:30:02

Foggy fog 🌫️
雾雾的雾 🌫️
📷 Pentax MX
🎞️ Ilford HP5 Plus, expired 1993
#filmphotography #Photography #blackandwhite

Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

English Alt Text:
A black-and-white photo of outdoor furniture arranged in neat stacks. On the left, two tall columns of plastic stools are nested together, each stool featuring small ventilation holes on top. On the right, a stack of plastic chairs with curved backrests and metal legs leans slightly. The chairs are also nested, forming a compact tower. The ground is paved, and a metal rod lies nearby. In the upper left corner, wooden steps suggest proximity to a build…
Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

English Alt Text:
A black-and-white photo of a city street scene. In the foreground, a circular traffic sign displays the number “50,” indicating a speed limit of 50 km/h. Below it, a rectangular sign with Chinese characters reads “Shuangjing Bridge – Jingguang Bridge.” The signs are mounted on a pole near a leafy tree. In the background, cars and a motorcycle move along a wide road flanked by buildings, including a high-rise and a long residential block. The grainy te…
Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

English Alt Text:
A monochrome photo of a city skyline shrouded in smog or fog. Several tall buildings are visible, including a striking skyscraper shaped like a twisted column. A green traffic light glows in the foreground, mounted on a pole near streetlights and an overpass. The air appears thick, reducing visibility and softening the outlines of buildings. The image evokes urban density and environmental tension, with a quiet, surreal mood.

中文替代文本:
这是一张黑白城市天际线照片,画面…
Ilford HP5 Plus 400 (FF)

English Alt Text:
A black-and-white photo taken from inside a tunnel or underpass, looking out onto a busy urban road. Several people ride scooters or motorcycles, while one person walks along the sidewalk. The road continues under a series of elevated structures supported by thick columns. In the distance, a bus and a car are visible. The tunnel’s shadow frames the scene, creating strong contrasts between light and dark. The photo captures a moment of city life in mot…
@netzschleuder@social.skewed.de
2025-07-28 22:00:08

dbpedia_genre: DBpedia work-genre network
A bipartite network of the affiliations between artists and their works on one side and genre classifications on the other, as extracted from Wikipedia by the DBpedia project. The date of this snapshot is uncertain.
This network has 266717 nodes and 463497 edges.
Tags: Informational, Relatedness, Unweighted

dbpedia_genre: DBpedia work-genre network. 266717 nodes, 463497 edges. https://networks.skewed.de/net/dbpedia_genre

In the days before the surprise U.S. attack on Iran, Politico reported that
one man in the Defense Department was having an outsized say on Washington’s Iran strategy:
Erik Kurilla, the hawkish U.S. Central Command leader known as “The Gorilla.”
“He’s a big dude, he’s jacked, he’s exactly this ‘lethality’ look they’re going for,” said an anonymous former official.
So long as military advisors “come across as tough and warfighters,”
the source added, Defense S…

@blakes7bot@mas.torpidity.net
2025-08-27 15:21:56

Series B, Episode 09 - Countdown
RALLI: That's Provine! That's his service record. [She picks up the card] That's the man I got to go with Blake!
VILA: Which way did they go?
RALLI: The rocket silo. [Vila runs to door, then back]
blake.torpidity.net/m/209/414

Claude 3.7 describes the image as: "This image shows a scene in what appears to be a futuristic spacecraft or control room setting. Two people are engaged in conversation, with one wearing a green outfit with a light green overlay jacket, and the other in a gray outfit with what looks like a wrist device or communication tool. They appear to be exchanging some kind of document or data card.

The setting features technological elements typical of science fiction production design from the late 1…

In the third century BCE, Apollonius of Perga asked how many circles one could draw that would touch three given circles at exactly one point each.
It would take 1,800 years to prove the answer: eight.
Such questions, which ask for the number of solutions that satisfy a set of geometric conditions,
were a favorite of the ancient Greeks.
And they’ve continued to entrance mathematicians for millennia.
How many lines lie on a cubic surface?
How many quadrat…

@netzschleuder@social.skewed.de
2025-08-26 23:00:04

physics_collab: Multilayer physicist collaborations (2015)
Two multiplex networks of coauthorships among the Pierre Auger Collaboration of physicists (2010-2012) and among researchers who have posted preprints on arXiv.org (all papers up to May 2014). Layers represent different categories of publication, and an edge's weight indicates the number of reports written by the authors. These layers are one-mode projections from the underlying author-paper bipartite network.
This n…

physics_collab: Multilayer physicist collaborations (2015). 14488 nodes, 59026 edges. https://networks.skewed.de/net/physics_collab#arXiv

Take care! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of possessions
commondreams.org/opinion/trump

Video footage captured by Laynez-Ambrosio, an 18-year-old US citizen, show a group of officers in tactical gear working together to violently detain the three men, two of whom are undocumented.
They appear to use a stun gun on one man,
put another in a chokehold
and can be heard telling Laynez-Ambrosio:
“You’ve got no rights here. You’re a migo, brother.”
Afterward, agents can be heard bragging and making light of the arrests,
calling the stun gun use “f…