
2025-06-27 17:42:03
from my link log —
Why is my Chumby’s CPU usage always 100%?
https://www.downtowndougbrown.com/2024/04/why-is-my-cpu-usage-always-100-upgrading-my-chumby-8-kernel-part-9/
saved 2025-01-13
from my link log —
Why is my Chumby’s CPU usage always 100%?
https://www.downtowndougbrown.com/2024/04/why-is-my-cpu-usage-always-100-upgrading-my-chumby-8-kernel-part-9/
saved 2025-01-13
"Half a million hectares of rainforest were saved — in part thanks to journalism"
#Rainforest #Environment
Apparently, many of the new volunteers are quite young, which seems to go against prevailing narrative of an atomised lonely genZ/Alpha that doesn't feel part of society. OTOH, Hjemmeværnet emphasises that many are joining because of the "fælleskab" (an extremely important concept in Denmark which translates as fellowship, but is used much more commonly than the English word, it's something like "being part of the gang")
"A common Israeli taking point [is] 'How should America respond if rockets were launched from Tijuana at San Diego?' ... it highlights both Israeli ignorance and fears and Palestinian and Xicano/Migrant commonality. Just like how Tel Aviv and Gaza are part of Historic Palestine, San Diego and Tijuana were both Mexico but more importantly part of the homeland of the Kumeyaay People."
Earlier this month, the Copyright Office issued the third part of its report on on AI: this one covering how generative AI may infringe on copyright and whether that's fair use (short answer: maybe, maybe not). I have a new article up summarizing the report.
https://www.…
🔊 #NowPlaying on #BBCRadio3:
#25For25:SoundsOfTheCentury
- Part one: Dawn of a new millennium
Naga Munchetty explores the landmark events of the 21st century via the lens of music. Part one: 2000 to 2008.
Relisten now 👇
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002dxy2
Sources: Big Fund III, China's main chip fund that has secured only a part of its $48B goal, plans to focus on key shortcomings in lithography and EDA software (Bloomberg)
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/20
Optimal solutions employing an algebraic Variational Multiscale approach Part II: Application to Navier-Stokes
Suyash Shrestha, Marc Gerritsma, Gonzalo Rubio, Steven Hulshoff, Esteban Ferrer
https://arxiv.org/abs/2506.21395
Absolutely the most surprising part of this obit of Dilip Doshi, a former Indian #cricket player, is that while Doshi always struck me as the squarest of blokes, he was thick chums with MICK JAGGER, the sultan of cool.
Tesla's European car sales nosedive for fifth month in a row.
Tesla 'has sustained brand and reputational damage in part due to CEO Elon Musk's incendiary rhetoric and political activity.'
That's politely put.
https://www.cnb…
Linear codes arising from the point-hyperplane geometry-Part I: the Segre embedding
Ilaria Cardinali, Luca Giuzzi
https://arxiv.org/abs/2506.21309 https://…
The result is a two-party system where the parties are going at cross purposes: one going full naked stinking fascist, and the other not pushing back in the opposite direction but just…pushing sideways, wishing for the resurrection of a party split that’s gone.
This may explain in part the endless appeal of the centrist mush-meal pitch: “We just need a party that meets these poor benighted Trump voters with common-sense answers to kitchen table issues!” That sounds like the way you win the 1932 presidential election! Yay!
7/
Followerpower if you're from Sweden: I'm trying to figure out how to get around some places near Stockholm. There are some bus stops in a nature reserve, e.g., Järflottvägen (part of Nynäshamn), but the swedish rail webpage sj.se does not find this bus stop. Several sources say there are busses stopping there (lines 848,852), but only thirdparty sources, none look like the bus operator. Should I assume this bus is operating, and where would I find its official timetable and ticket in…
Check Point acquires Israeli cyber startup firm Veriti for $100 million
https://www.ynetnews.com/business/article/byjdi4emee
The Federal Communications Commission approved the $8 billion merger between Paramount and Skydance on Thursday -- after several changes at CBS that were widely seen as efforts to placate Donald Trump.
Part of the deal will require an internal monitor to check the media company’s supposed political biases.
FCC commissioner Brendan Carr has been doing the rounds to brag about how he’s getting people on TV to be nicer to the MAGA movement.
“They made commitments to address bia…
Last week I asked Google to stop releasing broken things. Apologists said maybe I needed to contribute more, write code or demos.
Last year I outlined some of what I *have* done and how, for the most part, Google / Web•dev doesn’t give a shit:
https://adrianroselli.com/2024/07…
It's the #DayOfHelios / Sol's Day / #Sunday! ☀️
"The Corinthians say that Poseidon had a dispute with Helios (the Sun) about the land [of Korinthia], and that Briareos [one of the Hekatoncheires] arbitrated between them, assigning to Poseidon the Isthmos and the parts adjoining…
Super busy week, but here's some #FootpathFriday for you (from our amazing sunset solstice hike last Saturday), along a ridge which is part of the DE/AT borderline... 😍
#LandscapePhotography
The new audio effects libraries in CircuitPython are super fun. Here's a quick "taster" showing off some of them, part of my impending "Synthio Tutorial". Thanks Mark & Cooper for making them!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nyv7XlQ1d00
Documenting Your Prompts a Best Practice for Success
#promptengineering
My favorite part of Uber is following the little jellybean on the map. It's like being a drone pilot except I don't get to drop a grenade on anybody.
This morning I have a meeting with a PhD student who's working on the history of media coverage of the royals in Canada at exactly the same time as the throne speech. Maybe that's the least interesting part of the day?
Rebecca Solnit: "Me, 2019: "Epstein gambled on the differential between his power and voice in the world and theirs and for the most part he won, because the game was rigged by dozens of people around him... Monsters rule over us, on behalf of monsters." lithub.com/in-patriarch..." — Bluesky
https://bsky.app/profile/rebeccasolnit.bsky.social/post/3luvq327v4c2k
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In Ursula K. Le Guin's "A Man of the People" (part of "Four Ways to Forgiveness") there's a scene where the Hainish protagonist begins studying history. It's excellent in many respects, but what stood out the most to me was the softly incomprehensible idea of a people with multiple millions of years of recorded history. As one's mind starts to try to trace out the implications of that, it dawns on you that you can't actually comprehend the concept. Like, you read the sentence & understood all the words, and at first you were able to assemble them into what seemed like a conceptual understanding, but as you started to try to fill out that understating, it began to slip away, until you realized you didn't in fact have the mental capacity to build a full understanding and would have you paper things over with a shallow placeholder instead.
I absolutely love that feeling, as one of the ways in which reading science fiction can stretch the brain, and I connected it to a similar moment in Tsutomu Nihei's BLAME, where the android protagonists need to ride an elevator through the civilization/galaxy-spanning megastructure, and turn themselves off for *millions of years* to wait out the ride.
I'm not sure why exactly these scenes feel more beautifully incomprehensible than your run-of-the-mill "then they traveled at lightspeed for a millennia, leaving all their family behind" scene, other than perhaps the authors approach them without trying to use much metaphor to make them more comprehensible (or they use metaphor to emphasize their incomprehensibility).
Do you have a favorite mind=expanded scene of this nature?
#AmReading
Last week, we continued our #ISE2025 lecture on distributional semantics with the introduction of neural language models (NLMs) and compared them to traditional statistical n-gram models.
Benefits of NLMs:
- Capturing Long-Range Dependencies
- Computational and Statistical Tractability
- Improved Generalisation
- Higher Accuracy
@…
The functions in the {withr} package allow to change your environment temporarily. E.g. create a temp file for a {testthat} test and clean it up afterwards. #rstats
Just donated 20€ to @… because it's existence change my life radically 21 years ago. In great part thanks to @…
#teamvieux
Of course they knew no local would go for it. So they would pick their targets, based in part on license plates which made it pretty obvious who was local, and who wasn’t.
My mother, living in Denmark at that point, despite being *from* the town, of course had a foreign car.
So the windshield wipers would always go to town on our car, in the hopes of making a fat tip I suppose.
And my mom would always roll down the window and curse them out in Polish for their little scam.
"when a wealthy guy says the quiet part out loud…"
(A smart one.)
https://substack.com/@artistlike/note/c-136832061?r=n66c&utm_source=notes-share-action
Automorphism groups of measures on the Cantor space. Part II: Abstract homogeneous measures
Piotr Niemiec
https://arxiv.org/abs/2506.20797 https://
This call for a simple moniterable power monitor soundsrelatively simple; I guess the question is how to do it cheaply; are there any Shelly devices that can voltage monitor that could be stuffed in a box with a mobile modem/phone?
https://www.ukeic.com/opportunity/domestic
Browns reveal first-ever brown helmet as part of 'Alpha Dawg' look for 2025 season https://www.nfl.com/news/browns-reveal-first-ever-brown-helmet-as-part-of-alpha-dawg-look-for-2025-season
BiLO: Bilevel Local Operator Learning for PDE Inverse Problems. Part II: Efficient Uncertainty Quantification with Low-Rank Adaptation
Ray Zirui Zhang, Christopher E. Miles, Xiaohui Xie, John S. Lowengrub
https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.17019
#WritersCoffeeClub 5/27. What is a ‘load-bearing’ part of your non-writerly life that makes writing possible for you?
I have a limited amount of energy and my family comes first, and then obligations that I have to take care of. Work is necessary, not optional.
The time I have left is my spare time. We all have that, an hour or two when we're free.
During that time,…
Some of the same people who (correctly) say body shaming is wrong will then go on to shame the looks of a newlywed wealthy couple. It's OK because their wealth is ill gotten?
I mean, let us despise the couple (or part thereof) for something objectively bad, and there's plenty of that. 🙇♂️
My daughter's softball team this summer season is something else. For some reason this group of girls who for the most part didn't know each other from other leagues or seasons, are meshing like crazy.
Stuff like asking for extra practice, lol. Usually it's 2 hours, and they ask to practice for one more hour. Constantly asking to pitch to them hitting.
Today they spent 4 hours at a community pool, just playing. Very supportive to each other, etc. Amazing to watch.
🪆 Was the proposal of a nuclear consortium in Kazakhstan just a sham?
https://globalvoices.org/2025/07/05/was-the-proposal-of-a-nuclear-consortium-in-kazakhstan-just-a-sham/
A wish granting god baby, granting Conrad's wishes in service of the Rani, turns London into a misogynist utopia and The Doctor into a good husband and insurance worker.
Hard to say why misogynists are so keen on the American 50s. Perhaps because it was before blacks had the vote and women could do banking.
And if anyone doubts this ridiculous tale, their table stops working and their family might call the doubt police, so they soon learn not to. All very oppressive and subversive.
Ruby manages to doubt anyway. And all the disabled people who simply never enter into Conrad's mind. Nice touch that. Great scene in the tent city filled with the dispossessed. They don't seem to have actually done anything so far but maybe they'll get more useful in part two.
Conrad is on TV telling a story about a man named Doctor Who.
Giant dinosaur skeletons walk the city, stepping over sky scrapers, and a bone palace towers above the city. Because I guess Conrad wishes for it to be so in order to give the Rani somewhere to live.
The palace is beautiful and Gothic.
But doubt is seeping in. Rogue is back, on the TV in hell, telling the Doctor that tables don't work like that. So he investigates. Gets himself reported to the doubt police who take him and Belinda to the bone palace.
The Rani's split from Miss Flood gives the pair of them a good chemistry. Queen and her maid of honour. Seems like Mrs Flood is likely to be the Rani's downfall. She doesn't like being told to make a sandwich.
A lot of exposition going on, but they at least put a hat on it: "Isn't just exposition, I need you to doubt"
So that's the reason for the strange wishes: To make the doctor have doubts so severe that the reality collapses, and Rani can rescue Omega. Omega is the dude in a Mask from the first 3 doctors episode, who gave the timelords time travel and got trapped in the underworld in the process. Timelords forgot him and never mounted a rescue, but presumably Rani is now hoping he'll bring back Galifrey.
And with London collapsing into the underworld and the doctor falling from the sky, we get the episode break and have to wait until next week.
That's not a cliff hanger, that an already-falling-from-the-cliff hanger.
Poppy really is his daughter he's shouting as he falls. And you know what that means?
🤨🤔
Back in Space Babies, the worst episode of the Nchuti seasons, that space baby asked if he was her parents and he said he wished that he was their parents.
That wish has been granted somehow?
Is this space baby Susan's mother? They have very different skin tones, but that doesn't matter much in a regenerating species.
Never have found out much about The Doctor's child. When he traveled with his granddaughter everyone assumed he'd met his own kid, the grandchild's parent.
But that doesn't have to be true for a time traveler. Maybe he met the granddaughter before he met his own kid, and maybe his own kid was just wished into his family line 60 years later (or billions of years in his timeline I guess).
Pretty fun episode but not sure it makes much sense. Why doesn't the Rani just wish for Omega to be back instead of all this doubt and underworld bollocks?
Last one next week. Super long episode. Hope it's all cleared up. Good chance we'll meet Susan again I think. And maybe see Omega's mask once more.
@… @… that's the best possible way to start the BSD Cafe part of my Sunday!
With a smile. Thank you …
@…
[OT] Protecting science: TIB builds dark archive for arXiv #arXiv; …
Well I still suck at it, but thus far I'm really happy with the 1.0.1 build of FreeCAD. They simplified the build procedure so you don't have to keep bouncing between Sketch mode and Part mode. I even figured out how to cut multiple sketches into a part, and the auto-constraint feature is pretty useful.
Progress on this Heltec case is progressing slowly, but it's coming along.
As a side note, I'm starting to see why folks are installing transistors on their GPS …
New examples of CR submanifolds for the $2$-jet determination problem
Florian Bertrand, Martin Kol\'a\v{r}, Francine Meylan
https://arxiv.org/abs/2506.21221
#NicoleEggert #DavidCharvet
Season 4 Episode 14 "Coronado Del Soul: part 1"
#RandomBaywatch
My brother and fellow Youtuber Jakeford12 has a #discord server (largely focused on YTPs), show him some love
https://discord.gg/QQkdmXSW
We don’t know about you, but we’re excited for the next instalment of Tech Pizza Monday: Sticker Club!
Bring your stickers, patches and pins for display and potential trading. If you just want to part with them and be happy in the knowledge that they will get the love they deserve, that’s OK too!
#Toronto
The rank condition and strong rank conditions for Ore extensions
Karl Lorensen, Johan \"Oinert
https://arxiv.org/abs/2505.21030 https://
New blog post! Part 2 of the Ethernet switch saga.
This one is a deep dive into the bringup and characterization of the 24-port QSGMII to 10/100/1000 baseT line card.
https://serd.es/2025/06/23/Switch-project-pt2.html
from my link log —
Cranelift compiler efficiency, CFGs, and a branch peephole optimizer.
https://cfallin.org/blog/2021/01/22/cranelift-isel-2/
saved 2021-02-19
Sources: mass production of Microsoft's next AI chip is delayed to 2026 and is expected to underperform Nvidia's Blackwell chip, released in late 2024 (The Information)
https://www.theinformation.com/articles/microsofts-ai-chip-effort-falls-b…
This was part of Stephen Colbert’s Monday monologue:
After playing clips of the Trump admin spokespeople parroting the party line about not being at war with Iran, but being at war with Iran’s nuclear weapons program, he added the following bit:
“Honey, NO! I’m not having an affair with Stacey, … but I am having an affair with some of Stacey’s parts.
Remember when Wikipedia went dark for a day as a part of a campaign to bring awareness to SOPA/PIPA and was likely half of the reason why those bills got killed? Like we can get shit done if we just organized.
Cowboys trying to fix $4.3 million former Commander who retired at 25 https://cowboyswire.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/cowboys/2025/06/26/dallas-cowboys-player-profile-no-77-ol-saahdiq-charles/8438…
IoT and Older Adults: Towards Multimodal EMG and AI-Based Interaction with Smart Home
Wies{\l}aw Kope\'c, Jaros{\l}aw Kowalski, Aleksander Majda, Anna Duszyk-Bogorodzka, Anna Jaskulska, Cezary Biele
https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.19479
As part of the #IWP9 #hackathon, we were debugging the bringup of the RISC-V port of 9front to QEMU yesterday. It was really painful, compared to my experiences with other kernels like Linux and the ease of Rust and its built-in print format capabilities. We were finally able to use uartputs with a s…
Natura Urbana II 🏡
城市自然 II 🏡
📷 Pentax MX
🎞️Ilford FP4 Plus, expired 1995
buy me ☕️ ?/请我喝杯☕️?
#filmphotography
Every day, 125 Americans are killed with guns.
But we can work together to make every town safer, and support solutions that will address the causes of gun violence in America.
Sign up today and become part of a movement of millions of everyday Americans.
https://everytownsupportfund.org/join/
Senate Parliamentarian Deals Huge Blow To Critical Part Of GOP's 'Big Beautiful Bill' (HuffPost)
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/parliamentarian-medicaid-cuts-provider-tax_n_685d4229e4b0f78c573833aa
http://www.memeorandum.com/250626/p78#a250626p78
I consider myself part of the sarcasm community.
Azerbaijan gives eight journalists prison sentences ranging from 7.5 to 15 years, as part of a series of media trials set to obliterate independent reporting (Committee to Protect Journalists)
https://cpj.org/2025/06/8-journalists-g…
«The real cost of AI is being paid in deserts far from Silicon Valley»
Of course it's not just the 'AI' boom but our tech consumption more broadly, but it's a good summary of how large-scale resource extraction is doing its part to destroy communities and the planet.
/HT @… for sharing the link!
https://restofworld.org/2025/ai-resource-extraction-chile-indigenous-communities/
#Git has become a fundamental part of our developers' daily routine that it’s hard to remember our lives without it. And yet, most of us use a limited set of commands and options. Today, I want to focus on two commands most developers probably use every day and look at the defaults behind them.
"Of mushrooms and mycelium: How fungi are powering eco-friendly solutions"
#Mushrooms #Fungi
Reconstructing the unitary part of a noisy quantum channel
Adrian Romer, Daniel M. Reich, Christiane P. Koch
https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.17648 https://arxiv…
Every company is undergoing an invisible reorg. You report to your boss but your boss reports to an #AI, offloading the job of management entirely onto a bot and then merely communicating its wishes back to the team.
This is the Nothing Manager, surrounded by #LLM tools to avoid having to interact with…
Interesting effect of #Google’s #AI answer box; Sites used to get visitors by folk clicking on search result answers, but now the sites creating the content see nothing because their site is ingested and the content, or a derivative, is shown by Google directly to users as part of an AI response.
This mas…
Semiconductor giant Intel has officially begun a new round of layoffs, following through on CEO Lip-Bu Tan's warning two months ago that job cuts were "inevitable" as part of a wider restructuring strategy.
https://www.computing.co.uk/news/2025/inte
After Houston's Astrodome sits empty two decades plus, support fades for preservation. Despite the better-than-most case for genuine landmark status that can be made for the first indoor baseball stadium. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/26/us/hous…
The Last of Us Part 2’s story is just fine the way it is. TLOU2 isn’t for everyone — and maybe it shouldn’t be.
https://share.google/vg2WYB24QZTklDIRH
A profile of London-based CloudNC, a leading provider of AI-powered CNC software that is helping US manufacturers overcome a shortage of trained operators (Jeremy Kahn/Fortune)
https://fortune.com/2025/06/26/ai-manufacturing-parts-cnc-machines…
#WritersCoffeeClub 5/27. What is a ‘load-bearing’ part of your non-writerly life that makes writing possible for you?
I have a limited amount of energy and my family comes first, and then obligations that I have to take care of. Work is necessary, not optional.
The time I have left is my spare time. We all have that, an hour or two when we're free.
During that time,…
🔊 #NowPlaying on #BBCRadio3:
#LateJunction
- Furniture Music
As part of Radio 3’s celebration of French composer and pianist Erik Satie, Jennifer Lucy Allan raids her shelves to drill down into the idea of ‘Furniture Music'.
Relisten now 👇
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002dn20
In May, the Supreme Court cleared the way for the Trump administration to strip
temporary legal protection
from hundreds of thousands of Venezuelans living in the United States.
Overnight, TPS holders , found themselves without status—despite following all the rules.
Trump’s termination of TPS for Venezuelans is part of the largest delegalization campaign in modern US history.
“A single act of stripping immigration status in one fell swoop,”
said Ahilan A…
#DavidChokachi #DavidHasselhoff
Season 8 Episode 21 "White Thunder at Glacier Bay: part 1"
#RandomBaywatch
Tom Brady on role as Raiders limited partner: 'I'm there as a great sounding board' https://www.nfl.com/news/tom-brady-on-role-as-raiders-limited-partner-i-m-there-as-a-great-sounding-board
How popular media gets love wrong
Had some thoughts in response to a post about loneliness on here. As the author emphasized, reassurances from people who got lucky are not terribly comforting to those who didn't, especially when the person who was lucky had structural factors in their favor that made their chances of success much higher than those is their audience. So: these are just my thoughts, and may not have any bearing on your life. I share them because my experience challenged a lot of the things I was taught to believe about love, and I think my current beliefs are both truer and would benefit others seeing companionship.
We're taught in many modern societies from an absurdly young age that love is not something under our control, and that dating should be a process of trying to kindle love with different people until we meet "the one" with whom it takes off. In the slightly-less-fairytale corners of modern popular media, we might fund an admission that it's possible to influence love, feeding & tending the fire in better or worse ways. But it's still modeled as an uncontrollable force of nature, to be occasionally influenced but never tamed. I'll call this the "fire" model of love.
We're also taught (and non-boys are taught more stringently) a second contradictory model of love: that in a relationship, we need to both do things and be things in order to make our partner love us, and that if we don't, our partner's love for us will wither, and (especially if you're not a boy) it will be our fault. I'll call this the "appeal" model of love.
Now obviously both of these cannot be totally true at once, and plenty of popular media centers this contradiction, but there are really very few competing models on offer.
In my experience, however, it's possible to have "pre-meditated" love. In other words, to decide you want to love someone (or at least, try loving them), commit to that idea, and then actually wind up in love with them (and them with you, although obviously this second part is not directly under your control). I'll call this the "engineered" model of love.
Now, I don't think that the "fire" and "appeal" models of love are totally wrong, but I do feel their shortcomings often suggest poor & self-destructive relationship strategies. I do think the "fire" model is a decent model for *infatuation*, which is something a lot of popular media blur into love, and which drives many (but not all) of the feelings we normally associate with love (even as those feelings have other possible drivers too). I definitely experienced strong infatuation early on in my engineered relationship (ugh that sounds terrible but I'll stick with it; I promise no deception was involved). I continue to experience mild infatuation years later that waxes and wanes. It's not a stable foundation for a relationship but it can be a useful component of one (this at least popular media depicts often).
I'll continue these thoughts in a reply, by it might take a bit to get to it.
#relationships
4 winners from Cowboys' first week of camp include two former 1st-round picks and a UDFA https://cowboyswire.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/cowboys/2025/07/27/4-winners-from-the-first-week-of-cowboys-traini…
Natura Urbana II 🏡
城市自然 II 🏡
📷 Pentax MX
🎞️Ilford FP4 Plus, expired 1995
buy me ☕️ ?/请我喝杯☕️?
#filmphotography
The King's Lodge
(Not all kings built hunting lodges, even fewer built them on precipices like these, but some of Bavaria's last ones did and not just in one place... Not endorsing kings in any form, just admiring their choice of locations.... btw. the picture only shows the top half of the drop)
#MountainMonday
Archiverse: an Approach for Immersive Cultural Heritage
Wieslaw Kope\'c, Anna Jaskulska, W{\l}adys{\l}aw Fuchs, Wiktor Stawski, Stanis{\l}aw Knapi\'nski, Barbara Karpowicz, Rafa{\l} Mas{\l}yk
https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.19376
{dtrack} makes documentation of data wrangling part of the analysis and creates pretty flow charts: #rstats
In New York City, outer Brooklyn and outer Queens might as well be in different universes from each other.
The city has a plan to change that: a light rail line that would repurpose freight tracks to make travel from Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, to Jackson Heights, Queens, take about 40 minutes --
and connect 17 different subway lines.
Whether the train will even be built at all depends in part on revenue from the city’s embattled congestion pricing plan.
But, if realized, th…
Yes, I support Trump's big, beautiful bill. Just not this one part. (Sarah Huckabee Sanders/Washington Post)
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2025/06/26/state-ai-regulations-ban-obbb/
http://www.memeorandum.com/250626/p83#a250626p83
🔊 #NowPlaying on #BBCRadio3:
#BBCProms
- 2025
Guitarist Sean Shibe is joined by a starry cast of friends at the Glasshouse for 'Le marteau sans maître' given as part of the centenary celebrations of the birth of Pierre Boulez.
Relisten now 👇
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002g3nr
«The real cost of AI is being paid in deserts far from Silicon Valley»
Of course it's not just the 'AI' boom but our tech consumption more broadly, but it's a good summary of how large-scale resource extraction is doing its part to destroy communities and the planet.
/HT @… for sharing the link!
https://restofworld.org/2025/ai-resource-extraction-chile-indigenous-communities/
DirecTV experiments with discontinuing satellite TV subscriptions for new customers in several US regions and directing subscribers toward its streaming option (Luke Bouma/Cord Cutters News)
https://cordcuttersnews.com/directv-stop…
How popular media gets love wrong
Now a bit of background about why I have this "engineered" model of love:
First, I'm a white straight cis man. I've got a few traits that might work against my relationship chances (e.g., neurodivergence; I generally fit pretty well into the "weird geek" stereotype), but as I was recently reminded, it's possible my experience derives more from luck than other factors, and since things are tilted more in my favor than most people on the planet, my advice could be worse than useless if it leads people towards strategies that would only have worked for someone like me. I don't *think* that's the case, but it's worth mentioning explicitly.
When I first started dating my now-wife, we were both in graduate school. I was 26, and had exactly zero dating/romantic experience though that point in my life. In other words, a pretty stereotypical "incel" although I definitely didn't subscribe to incel ideology at all. I felt lonely, and vaguely wanted a romantic relationship (I'm neither aromantic nor asexual), but had never felt socially comfortable enough to pursue one before. I don't drink and dislike most social gatherings like parties or bars; I mostly hung around the fringes of the few college parties I attended, and although I had a reasonable college social life in terms of friends, I didn't really do anything to pursue romance, feeling too awkward to know where to start. I had the beginnings of crushes in both high school and college, but never developed a really strong crush, probably correlated with not putting myself in many social situations outside of close all-male friend gatherings. I never felt remotely comfortable enough to act on any of the proto-crushes I did have. I did watch porn and masturbate, so one motivation for pursuing a relationship was physical intimacy, but loneliness was as much of a motivating factor, and of course the social pressure to date was a factor too, even though I'm quite contrarian.
When I first started dating my now-wife, we were both in graduate school. I was 26, and had exactly zero dating/romantic experience though that point in my life. In other words, a pretty stereotypical "incel" although I definitely didn't subscribe to incel ideology at all. I felt lonely, and vaguely wanted a romantic relationship (I'm neither aromantic nor asexual), but had never felt socially comfortable enough to pursue one before. I don't drink and dislike most social gatherings like parties or bars; I mostly hung around the fringes of the few college parties I attended, and although I had a reasonable college social life in terms of friends, I didn't really do anything to pursue romance, feeling too awkward to know where to start. I had the beginnings of crushes in both high school and college, but never developed a really strong crush, probably correlated with not putting myself in many social situations outside of close all-male friend gatherings. I never felt remotely comfortable enough to act on any of the proto-crushes I did have. I did watch porn and masturbate, so one motivation for pursuing a relationship was physical intimacy, but loneliness was as much of a motivating factor, and of course the social pressure to date was a factor too, even though I'm quite contrarian.
I'm lucky in that I had some mixed-gender social circles already like intramural soccer and a graduate-student housing potluck. Graduate school makes a *lot* more of these social spaces accessible, so I recognize that those not in school of some sort have a harder time of things, especially if like me they don't feel like they fit in in typical adult social spaces like bars.
However, at one point I just decided that my desire for a relationship would need action on my part and so I'd try to build a relationship and see what happened. I worked up my courage and asked one of the people in my potluck if she'd like to go for a hike (pretty much clearly a date but not explicitly one; in retrospect not the best first-date modality in a lot of ways, but it made a little more sense in our setting where we could go for a hike from our front door). To emphasize this point: I was not in love with (or even infatuated with) my now-wife at that point. I made a decision to be open to building a relationship, but didn't follow the typical romance story formula beyond that. Now of course, in real life as opposed to popular media, this isn't anything special. People ask each other out all the time just because they're lonely, and some of those relationships turn out fine (although many do not).
I was lucky in that some aspects of who I am and what I do happened to be naturally comforting to my wife (natural advantage in the "appeal" model of love) but of course there are some aspects of me that annoy my wife, and we negotiate that. In the other direction, there's some things I instantly liked about my wife, and other things that still annoy me. We've figured out how to accept a little, change a little, and overall be happy with each other (though we do still have arguments; it's not like the operation/construction/maintenance of the "love mechanism" is always perfectly smooth). In particular though, I approached the relationship with the attitude of "I want to try to build a relationship with this person," at first just because of my own desires for *any* relationship, and then gradually more and more through my desire to build *this specific* relationship as I enjoyed the rewards of companionship.
So for example, while I think my wife is objectively beautiful, she's also *subjectively* very beautiful *to me* because having decided to build a relationship with her, I actively tried to see her as beautiful, rather than trying to judge whether I wanted a relationship with her based on her beauty. In other words, our relationship is more causative of her beauty-to-me than her beauty-to-me is causative of our relationship. This is the biggest way I think the "engineered" model of love differs from the "fire" and "appeal" models: you can just decide to build love independent of factors we typically think of as engendering love (NOT independent of your partner's willingness to participate, of course), and then all of those things like "thinking your partner is beautiful" can be a result of the relationship you're building. For sure those factors might affect who is willing to try building a relationship with you in the first place, but if more people were willing to jump into relationship building (not necessarily with full commitment from the start) without worrying about those other factors, they might find that those factors can come out of the relationship instead of being prerequisites for it. I think this is the biggest failure of the "appeal" model in particular: yes you *do* need to do things that appeal to your partner, but it's not just "make myself lovable" it's also: is your partner putting in the effort to see the ways that you are beautiful/lovable/etc., or are they just expecting you to become exactly some perfect person they've imagined (and/or been told to desire by society)? The former is perfectly possible, and no less satisfying than the latter.
To cut off my rambling a bit here, I'll just add that in our progress from dating through marriage through staying-married, my wife and I have both talked at times explicitly about commitment, and especially when deciding to get married, I told her that I knew I couldn't live up to the perfect model of a husband that I'd want to be, but that if she wanted to deepen our commitment, I was happy to do that, and so we did. I also rearranged my priorities at that point, deciding that I knew I wanted to prioritize this relationship above things like my career or my research interests, and while I've not always been perfect at that in my little decisions, I've been good at holding to that in my big decisions at least. In the end, *once we had built a somewhat-committed relationship*, we had something that we both recognized was worth more than most other things in life, and that let us commit even more, thus getting even more out of it in the long term. Obviously you can't start the first date with an expectation of life-long commitment, and you need to synchronize your increasing commitment to a relationship so that it doesn't become lopsided, which is hard. But if you take the commitment as an active decision and as the *precursor* to things like infatuation, attraction, etc., you can build up to something that's incredibly strong and rewarding.
I'll follow this up with one more post trying to distill some advice from my ramblings.
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